They've ALL had PS! I'm telling you! (1 Viewer)

[gone4good]

Oh shooot! WAIT!

 

[noctis]

Cha Eunwoo is truly perfect

 

[gone4good]

Cha Eunwoo is truly perfect

He'd be perfect for me, that's for damn sure!

 

[noctis]

He'd be perfect for me, that's for damn sure!

I see

 

[Selfmate]

but but but not my favs they are all natural 100% organic!!!

I couldn't care less but an interesting question is if one did have work done - and you had a long term partner who both of you were considering marriage - do you have an obligation to inform him/her

 

[gone4good]

but but but not my favs they are all natural 100% organic!!!

I couldn't care less but an interesting question is if one did have work done - and you had a long term partner who both of you were considering marriage - do you have an obligation to inform him/her

I'd want the truth and nothing but the truth! which prolly explains why JooE's my baby! She tells it like it is! There's no messing around with her! If all Idols had "the balls" to tell it like it is like her, the Kpop world would be a better place! She was called the ugliest Idol back in the days. I could pull 50 pics in here right now that would demonstrate how top idols were far worse than she ever was before they debuted. Anyhow, I'll leave it at that! ;) Let's not go there!

 

[Selfmate]

I'd want the truth and nothing but the truth! which prolly explains why JooE's my baby! She tells it like it is! There's no messing around with her! If all Idols had "the balls" to tell it like it is like her, the Kpop world would be a better place! She was called the ugliest Idol back in the days. I could pull 50 pics in here right now that would demonstrate how top idols were far worse than she ever was before they debuted. Anyhow, I'll leave it at that! ;) Let's not go there!

well it's kpop it's hard trying to find someone with balls to speak out but when they do it is a refreshing change

 

[gone4good]

well it's kpop it's hard trying to find someone with balls to speak out but when they do it is a refreshing change

yup, I love Jessi as well!

 

[Ahsoka]

but but but not my favs they are all natural 100% organic!!!

I couldn't care less but an interesting question is if one did have work done - and you had a long term partner who both of you were considering marriage - do you have an obligation to inform him/her

Why on earth would you have an obligation? Does it affect anyone in any way, shape, or form? The only way I could see it would be if you have an addiction to plastic surgery because it puts financial strain on you two

 

[Selfmate]

yup, I love Jessi as well!

Somi for me (and I think that's one of the reasons Somi and Jooe are good friends)

 

[gone4good]

Somi for me (and I think that's one of the reasons Somi and Jooe are good friends)

Indeed, BFF

 

[Selfmate]

Why on earth would you have an obligation? Does it affect anyone in any way, shape, or form? The only way I could see it would be if you have an addiction to plastic surgery because it puts financial strain on you two

lying by omission maybe?

there was an article a while back (probably fake but whatever) :

there was a chinese man who married a chinese woman and the woman had work done but failed to inform the husband
eventually they had children and the children turned out different (not as conventionally attractive) from the mother and it turned out then that the wife had PS and the husband threw a fit and (threatened) to divorce her for lying

 

[gone4good]

Why on earth would you have an obligation? Does it affect anyone in any way, shape, or form? The only way I could see it would be if you have an addiction to plastic surgery because it puts financial strain on you two

I'd still wanna know. I'm not saying they're "obligated", I'm just saying i'd want the truth from my bf. that's all.

 

[Ahsoka]

lying by omission maybe?

there was an article a while back (probably fake but whatever) :

there was a chinese man who married a chinese woman and the woman had work done but failed to inform the husband
eventually they had children and the children turned out different (not as conventionally attractive) from the mother and it turned out then that the wife had PS and the husband threw a fit and (threatened) to divorce her for lying

I feel like that a him problem. And an example of why you should marry people you like and not just people you think look nice To me the “villain” in there is only the guy from what I see.

 

[Ahsoka]

I'd still wanna know. I'm not saying they're "obligated", I'm just saying i'd want the truth from my bf. that's all.

I just don’t understand what difference it makes. If you ask the truth would be nice but I don’t see why they need to ensure they offer up the information at a certain point when for me, the information changes nothing about them. I dunno, maybe I’m just not understanding, but to me that’s what I see it as.

 

[gone4good]

I feel like that a him problem. And an example of why you should marry people you like and not just people you think look nice To me the “villain” in there is only the guy from what I see.

Looks are irrelevant to me (to a certain extent). But the TRUTH is! And hiding your past with me is a big f no no. period ;)

 

[Selfmate]

I feel like that a him problem. And an example of why you should marry people you like and not just people you think look nice To me the “villain” in there is only the guy from what I see.

all valid points but isn't that personal preference?
like you and I would prefer someone with a personality and not just a pretty face but not everyone is like us - some people just prefer a pretty face and that's their preference no? others might want a person with money or height or big D or whatever - isn't all of that just personal individual preferences and should we judge someone based on (whatever even if it is shallow) their own preferences???

 

[gone4good]

I just don’t understand what difference it makes. If you ask the truth would be nice but I don’t see why they need to ensure they offer up the information at a certain point when for me, the information changes nothing about them. I dunno, maybe I’m just not understanding, but to me that’s what I see it as.

seriously, you would commit and marry someone who would hide half his past life from you (nevermind PS)? damnnnnn

 

[Ahsoka]

Looks are irrelevant to me (to a certain extent). But the TRUTH is! And hiding your past with me is a big f no no. period ;)

From the story there’s nothing to suggest that she ever lied, just that she didn’t proactively bring it up and let the partner know. If they did lie yeah that’s a lot worse but it doesn’t sound like she did, unless the story is just told that way unintentionally

 

[Ahsoka]

all valid points but isn't that personal preference?
like you and I would prefer someone with a personality and not just a pretty face but not everyone is like us - some people just prefer a pretty face and that's their preference no? others might want a person with money or height or big D or whatever - isn't all of that just personal individual preferences and should we judge someone based on (whatever even if it is shallow) their own preferences???

It is a preference but your chances of this type of situation are more likely to happen if you go based only on visuals. If that’s a risk someone’s willing to take then yeah go for it as long as they don’t string along someone in their quest. But this situation could be avoided by not doing that. Overall, as long as both people are on the same page then go for it ig.