Sensitive She gmailed me... :| (1 Viewer)

[sooya_]

WARNING: Really weird and uncomfy, you have been warned





















The start of the new school year, I made a new friend. They were super nice. Me and my friends would hang with them alot. I thought that this school year would be peace but I was wrong. On top of trying to get better at math, ( whenever I look at the teacher doing the math, it passes out my ears and it's so difficult or I'm just being lazy ), my friend had this other friend who would give me weird looks when I talked to my friend. I thought they had something against me, giving me the stink eye just for asking my friend if they had an eraser.
THEN that friend started getting near me and talking to me. I tossed aside their looks from before and... We got to know each other in... How long? A couple weeks?
You know how you start revealing yourself when you get comfy with someone? Well, I wasn't comfy with her since every once in a while she'd invade my space and hold my hand or tell me to take down my hair so I could look " very pretty", but I thought I was being dramatic so I told her more about myself but not too much like it was with my other friends.
And I was to regret it since she'd get even closer to me and grab my hand, entangling her fingers like we were some couple and rest her head on my shoulder and whisper VERY inappropriate things to me. I didn't know what to do since I thought that if I told her to stop, she'd get mad and spread a rumor to my friends and make me completely friend-less!!! I already have three friends who barely hang out with me, so that was enough.
Last semester, she'd ... um...

Spoiler: serious

fake-back-sh0t-me

and I OF COURSE, told her to stop but in a tiny voice.
" Please stop!" I'd say but she'd laugh and say, " Sorry" but in a way you know someone's lying.
She'd keep repeating her actions and getting to close to me.
Last week she sat next to me and when one of my friends was touching my stuff and reading a book of mine, ( I let them since they were bored ), she grabbed my stuff and book out of my friends hand and said to my friend in a bossy tone, " Give Gigi back their stuff! She didn't let you touch her stuff." They gave my friend a weird look and I shot her a confused stare. I got my stuff back and handed it to my friend like it was theirs.
* Talked crap about my friends once and I got upset with them and told them to knock it off and to not talk about my friends or get near them OR me if they were gonna be so

Spoiler: ...

bitchy

* Kept misgendering/using wrong pronouns me and talking about my dead name when referring to me like this other girl in class ( what nerve )
* Invading my space
* Makes me uncomfy
AND SHE HAD TO MAKE IT WORSE!!!
While she was sitting next to me, trying to get me to eat some of her chips, ( " No thank you-" " EAT IT!!! YOU ARE HUNGRY!!!" " I'm not-" " GIRL!!!" ), and putting some in my hair, she leaned in SUPER close, so I tried to move away, but I couldn't and she whispered something very

Spoiler: BAD

vulgar-I-cannot-say-what-she-said-since-it-was-VERY-weird-ugh

but it was VERY...
I shut my mouth and looked away from the table and went to lunch, scared and shivering. I know I'm being dramatic but... That was gross as hell.
Last week I gmailed her sum like this, " I didn't like what you said in science. I told you to stop but you didn't. You said sum weird things and made me uncomfortable"
I hadn't looked at my Gmail since.
But just a while ago I checked it, sadly and I couldn't help but open what she said. I'm very disappointed that I looked:
" Hey, we good? I said hello today and you just ignored me"
Then a day later:
" Answer me"
Then hours ago from today:
" I told you I would if you wanted me to before, and i haven't done anything since you told me to stop, so I'm confused why ur mad at me"





I dunno if I should reply. I'm scared for tmrw at school.
Sorry if this was weird, I just didn't wanna hold it in since it's too much for me to handle without saying this to someone.
- Gigi

 

[sooya_]

Just a tiny rant sry bout that

 

[IGURO]

first of all, that's really scary. it's probably best to avoid her, so don't reply to that email. also don't be afraid to tell a parent or trusted adult. it won't harm your reputation. i pray things will go well and i'm sorry you're in a very uncomfortable situation...

 

[dark_tranquility]

keep your distance

the lass sounds off the hinge
also tell a teacher or adult about it

No one should feel that way
I had a similar thing happen to me

I gave this john doe seven chances too many
and he just gives me this creepy smile when I was mates with him
I think he had the hots for me

he would get jealous easily as well

 

[sooya_]

first of all, that's really scary. it's probably best to avoid her, so don't reply to that email. also don't be afraid to tell a parent or trusted adult. it won't harm your reputation. i pray things will go well and i'm sorry you're in a very uncomfortable situation...

I just keep thinking if I tell my mama, this girl will out me to my mama

 

[sooya_]

keep your distance

the lass sounds off the hinge
also tell a teacher or adult about it

No one should feel that way
I had a similar thing happen to me

I gave this john doe seven chances too many
and he just gives me this creepy smile when I was mates with him
I think he had the hots for me

he would get jealous easily as well

oh wow :o
Keeping my distance is pretty easy except for the fact that she has three classes w me

 

[Pirioca]

Keeping my distance is pretty easy except for the fact that she has three classes w me

Often it's already enough when you keep your emotional distance and don't react to her. Spatial distance doesn't matter that much. Imagine those 'outsiders' in school other students don't care about, even when they are in the same room together.

 

[dark_tranquility]

oh wow :o
Keeping my distance is pretty easy except for the fact that she has three classes w me

oh.... that makes it a pickle
I am not sure what to do about that

 

[sooya_]

oh.... that makes it a pickle
I am not sure what to do about that

It's okay, I guess, I can't complain if I don't tell someone so... It's okay

 

[IGURO]

I just keep thinking if I tell my mama, this girl will out me to my mama

wait out you about what?

 

[BlingyBlinger]

Is your school counsellor chill? I'd maybe try and vent there if they seem safe to talk to

 

[sooya_]

wait out you about what?

I'm queer so...

 

[sooya_]

Is your school counsellor chill? I'd maybe try and vent there if they seem safe to talk to

Ooo... I don't know about that... I could... Try...? I just get scared thinking about it

 

[IGURO]

I'm queer so...

Oh I get it...
Maybe talk to another person that knows abt that or does nobody else know?

 

[sooya_]

Oh I get it...
Maybe talk to another person that knows abt that or does nobody else know?

I mean, I do avoid her as best I can...

 

[IGURO]

I mean, I do avoid her as best I can...

yeah i mean, if there's nothing else you can do...

 

[TrinityJade]

Glad you put it out there, and I can relate to your experience

if she's making you feel uncomfortable and you don't like being in her presence I would cut ties, it's the best for you

 

[sooya_]

yeah i mean, if there's nothing else you can do...

I can do this I hope

 

[sooya_]

Glad you put it out there, and I can relate to your experience

if she's making you feel uncomfortable and you don't like being in her presence I would cut ties, it's the best for you

funny, it's just now, she thinks I'm bipolar and she keeps talking to me.
" are you ok?"
I give a nod, turn my head and talk to someone else, which I'm really proud of, because I usually never do that UNLESS I'm nervous or scared
I avoid her as much as possible and that's working, thankfully!!!
I know that if someone makes me uncomfy, I avoid and take care of my needs. :) I don't let her say anything more and I don't say anything more, hopefully I'm not being rude.
I'm so happy that everything is cooling down tho :) I hang out with my friends instead, I remind myself I'd rather be lonely than near someone who doesn't respect my boundaries

 

[IGURO]

funny, it's just now, she thinks I'm bipolar and she keeps talking to me.
" are you ok?"
I give a nod, turn my head and talk to someone else, which I'm really proud of, because I usually never do that UNLESS I'm nervous or scared
I avoid her as much as possible and that's working, thankfully!!!
I know that if someone makes me uncomfy, I avoid and take care of my needs. :) I don't let her say anything more and I don't say anything more, hopefully I'm not being rude.
I'm so happy that everything is cooling down tho :) I hang out with my friends instead, I remind myself I'd rather be lonely than near someone who doesn't respect my boundaries

that's good !!