why do I keep having crushes on unavailable people.... (1 Viewer)

[yeji]

I think that considering who I have been crushing on, that it has been mainly unavailable people since the beginning of time.

sucks to be me I guess ​

 

[brekker]

because people in a relationship seem more reliable? more confident? and also if you can get a high quality person ... you better treat them well and cherish them :D

 

[SHlNEE]

I think that considering who I have been crushing on, that it has been mainly unavailable people since the beginning of time.

sucks to be me I guess ​

I'm just glad you not the type of hoe who goes disrespecting another human and convince the guy to cheat on his current partner

You a good woman

As for the question in matter.... Just keep contact with people, in the future they might become available

 

[yeji]

because people in a relationship seem more reliable? more confident? and also if you can get a high quality person ... you better treat them well and cherish them :D

not even that. even emotionally unavailable people are included in that

 

[brekker]

not even that. even emotionally unavailable people are included in that

maybe you are attracted to that mystery :D. but I wish you to find someone who is very emotionally available and loves you as much as you deserve and is not afraid to show it!

 

[Abeamus]

People in a relationship seem to have something going for them to someone who isn't in a relationship but that isn't always the case as some people in a relationship can be the most lost and people who aren't in one are the most knowing

 

[yeji]

maybe you are attracted to that mystery :D. but I wish you to find someone who is very emotionally available and loves you as much as you deserve and is not afraid to show it!

I guess all you can do it hope

 

[yeji]

People in a relationship seem to have something going for them to someone who isn't in a relationship but that isn't always the case as some people in a relationship can be the most lost and people who aren't in one are the most knowing

that makes sense

 

[honeyfornomoney]

Lol my life

 

[yeji]

Lol my life

ikr. why are we so similar

 

[Abeamus]

that makes sense

Well psychology is something that has always interested in as a way of knowing why people do the things they do and things like people being attracted to someone based on envy as they see something they feel they lack in themselves in someone else and are attracted to that was a topic I spoke about recently

 

[yeji]

Well psychology is something that has always interested in as a way of knowing why people do the things they do and things like people being attracted to someone based on envy as they see something they feel they lack in themselves in someone else and are attracted to that was a topic I spoke about recently

psychology is definitely fascinating

 

[Abeamus]

psychology is definitely fascinating

Well being able to understand what makes you you is an important asset in life and sometimes those who can't can lose their sense of self and their drive with it

 

[yeji]

Well being able to understand what makes you you is an important asset in life and sometimes those who can't can lose their sense of self and their drive with it

that’s certainly important. I personally am still figuring out a lot about me

 

[Abeamus]

that’s certainly important. I personally am still figuring out a lot about me

That's understandable as everyone discovers themself at their own pace, I still figure out some things about myself from time to time but for the most part I am aware of who I am

 

[NASA]

not even that. even emotionally unavailable people are included in that

I felt the OP but I felt this even harder. I know this is totally completely stupid and I understand more clearly once i've gotten over the crush but when I am crushing on someone but they're just not interested in a relationship at the time it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me and that it's just that i'm not good enough. Obviously that totally isn't the case and the person just doesn't want a relationship at the time and there's nothing that I can do or should do for that matter to change that, but when i'm still interested in that person it's just really hard for me to understand that, like the feelings get in the way and my brain just cannot compute the idea that not everyone is looking for a relationship at the moment.

 

[bulletproof]

damn... yeah, I guess the emotionally unavailable part is even more frustrating, why that type of people seem so attractive?

 

[Drew_B]

I'm available Karina. Just page me.

 

[LoveYooShaSha]

I think that considering who I have been crushing on, that it has been mainly unavailable people since the beginning of time.

sucks to be me I guess ​

You deserve to be with someone tat loves you for who you are n who appreciates you being with them, they shd f*** off if they arent down with tat, or willing to work with u on it. It wouldnt work out long term if they arent available, cos of any reason n tat sucks. But its good tat you realise tat n hopefully you can find someone tats available n loves you as you deserve n wants to be with you.

It shdnt suck to be you, you Queen, you.

 

[yeji]

I felt the OP but I felt this even harder. I know this is totally completely stupid and I understand more clearly once i've gotten over the crush but when I am crushing on someone but they're just not interested in a relationship at the time it makes me feel like there's something wrong with me and that it's just that i'm not good enough. Obviously that totally isn't the case and the person just doesn't want a relationship at the time and there's nothing that I can do or should do for that matter to change that, but when i'm still interested in that person it's just really hard for me to understand that, like the feelings get in the way and my brain just cannot compute the idea that not everyone is looking for a relationship at the moment.

totally felt that post. that’s how some situations of the past for me. Worst thing is it feels like you are stuck and can’t move on