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Too Passive or Too Greedy (1 Viewer)

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So, I was thinking. Back when I was in camp when I was like 10 I got a care package from home. I was really into Yu-Gi-Oh back then and I ended up getting three duplicates of Black Luster Soldier. Everyone was crowding around because their parents didn't really send them anything. But then one of the kids asked if he could have one and I said no and he coped an attitude and said that I had multiples so I should give it to him... More recently I have had some people come over to me when I ordered a Pizza and ask if they could have some.

Perhaps my passive nature and the fact that I rarely ask for things that I want from others is preventing me from understanding people who are quick to ask others who they have had limited contact with for things with such ease. How would you react in either scenarios that I mentioned above?
 

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I mean I woulda probably done what you did myself. I feel like I personally don't really ask for much from others so I don't see why I should share what I have, if I did ask people for stuff a lot then yeah I would be a lot more likely to share what I have myself but how I am now I feel like i'm very much self sustaining and i'd rather get stuff myself for myself rather than asking other people and then sharing with them in return.
 

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I'm so passive the OP is giving me anxiety bc I know I'd just go with it :yolk:

I'm pretty shy to a suffer-in-silence extent. Asking for things from others is really difficult because I hate rejection
 
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Passive. Unless it's something I really want to keep then, greedy. I shared my BTS persona posters with my cousin's kid but I refused to give my Baekhyun posters, no matter how much she asked.
 

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