What did influence you the most during childhood? (1 Viewer)

Reo said:

I think most would say parents probably but for me it was mostly the internet itself and what can be found on it

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same

My older sister. She has always been so cool and I have always wanted to be like her ♥. we are the opposites and I still think she is really cool, though not all her life decisions have been good :D. But when it comes to music, literature and arts, it is definitely all her fault :D. She made me grow up faster, have better taste than my peers and turned me into an outcast for quite some time, but eventually it was all meant to be :D. At least I knew how to open a book :D.

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extended family
church
books

the bullies in high school
they scarred me and my life
made me not being able to finish high school which made my life turn out way different than if had the chance back then to actually finish it

Reo said:

i'm sorry to hear that :c are you not able to re-do high school? we had some older guys in our school that decided to do it cuz they didnt have it before, but thatg's in Germany so idk how it looks like in your country

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thanks
i could do so but no need i think
in the end i got the chance to go to other schools and finish higher studies over there, like basically college
i started low because of no high school diploma, i got my first diploma like that
then after that i did another study, also finished, also got my diploma and it was a higher level than the first
and now i am working on getting into a school for a bachelors degree in social work
i have to do two tests to be able to get in .... i really wanna fkin get in and i really need it to work out , i want it bad
i have a true passion for the social work field.... also due thanks to being bullied for years, i am pretty sure i can help troubled and struggling teenagers
i would love to be able to make the future kids their lives a little bit better with my help as back then i did not get any proper help so yeah

Reo said:

its good that you made the best out of it, i wish you good luck to get into it
having a passion for that is really great as well, some people do it but are in no way good for it at all from some stories you can hear

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thank you i would like to think of myself as a mentally strong ass woman...... a lot of people in my position, with all i went through, not just the bullies, plenty would of been like fak it , sitting at home now doing nothing and drinking and smoke all day or maybe struggling with a gambling addiction etc
the fact i have not given up is a fkin miracle with all the shit and shit ass people i had to deal with in my life
not to mention the struggle of being real ass poor your parents cannot even afford you clothing as a kid sometimes

ANYWAYS
i think i know what you mean
a good example; a person becoming a psychologist whilst they suffer from an anti social personality disorder themselves..........
aka sociopath/psychopath

plenty of psychologists out there who are bad at their job because they suffer from something themselves which is why sometimes they got low level or none empathy at all in their body.....DON'T BECOME A PSYCHOLOGIST IF YOU DON'T KNOW THE MEANING OF THE WORD EMPATHY
like
that ingredient is SO important... how can you help and be comforting to a person if you don't have any empathy in your body
but maybe that's just me

also plenty of psychologists who do may have empathy in their body but yet then only do the job cause then so they can sit all day be comfortable in a warm office and earn big bucks
i can't with such people, doing jobs where they earn big money only for the money
don't get jobs like that if all you care about is money

some social workers earn good money too but whats the point if you only care about the money in that field? you need to be a people person, just like in psychology but yeah

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