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Selfmate
hey that's cool mate - appreciated my friend
keep working on yourself as I know some of the terrible situations your in at home with your family and sisters and whatnot

and don't worry my friend I give it as good as I take it and you know me I'm a happy go lucky person so I don't take much things that seriously
Chan_tan
Chan_tan
I try to make sure i dont use any kind of violent replies with anyone
Also ive been fighting less with my siblingssssss, like we barely even talk (in a good way)

Okay, just want to make sure bc some people do get offended by the way i joke and you're really nice so i don't wanna get you sad lol (the lol was added to make this sound less serious)
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Selfmate
a journey of a 1000 Li (500 kms) begins with the first step

its' a journey that people (even myself) spend a lifetime walking and learning and bettering oneself - you still have a long way to go but you're on the right path at least

and I'm sure you'll lapse into violent state once in a while - that's normal and to be expected - at least now you are aware of such behaviours and are actively trying to better oneself

it's good you're trying to get along with your siblings - that's nice to hear
Chan_tan
Chan_tan
actually now that i think of it, do you ever get angry? Like very angry?

Yeah i still do but im able to control myself much more. For example i havent replied to a person abt their looks (clothes, features, etc) for a longg time. Like ive gotten pretty good. I was in a fight and they commented my weight but didn't reply.

yeah we're better than before, its also easier to get along.

ALSO I BARELY GET BULLIED ANYMORE ROUND OF APPLAUSE PLZ ( 👏 👏 )
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Selfmate
since becoming an adult - almost never - it's not worth it...
I can upset at certain things but I might or might have not said this to you but I tend to control my emotions very well as in I don't have high highs but also I don't have low lows...it's all mostly neutral lol

that's good and don't let the little things bother you - smile and move on...there's more important things to worry about

great

that's fan bloody tastic!!! I'm so happy for your my friend
Chan_tan
Chan_tan
I wanna be an adult noww. It must be so funn

i don't, i have a few steps to make myself feel better

1- ignore

2- not talk to them

3- make sure to have the thing they made fun of pop out like nayeons solo (POPOPOP POPOPPP)


IM SO PRO BLODDY UD OF MYSELF!!!!!
Chan_tan
Chan_tan
bloody*
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Selfmate
it's almost like you're a new person my friend - what brought about the change so to speak?
Chan_tan
Chan_tan
yeah ive improved alotttt

quote : what brought about the change so to speak


wdym? like what got me to say this on ur wall?
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Selfmate
no what made you decide to change yourself and your attitude/outlook on life?