hi puppy (is it okay if i call you that? please lmk if you'd rather be called something else!), i saw your thread on kpop idols and their abs, and i want to respond to that. however, idk if i'm entirely okay with typing my response out on the thread. i still want to respond, as i thought long and hard about this and introspected quite a bit. so is it okay if my privately message my reponse?