Well you COULD just have it in the background for moody lighting!
I thought I should mention that my brain malfunctioned for a second when I saw candle on the list, for a second I was wondering what the heck would people do with a candle and I got scared lol
UwUCondoms and a Candle. I would have chose vibrator, but a mouth can do a great deal in regards to preparation, therefore making it unnecessary. A candle would provide ambiance. And Condoms.. Well.. If a man is having sex with another man condoms are required. Unless its only oral. Which when having a once in a lifetime opportunity who would just have oral with an idol.. lol