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So I was just wondering if tough love or regular love is what you need from those around you.
To get shit done does someone being kind of in your face and honest with you
about the potential damage, harm, or giving you straight up facts.

Or

Do you prefer to have someone be super supportive and beyond understanding
about your struggle to help motivate you to work through them?

So I am a combo-for my weight loss the tough love is what I needed
same with some other issues I have but when it comes to my anxiety I need supportive love.​
 

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I need people to congratulate me on the fact that I got up from the bed.
to the ocean with tough love, I want someone who is gonna tell me everything has its time and is gonna support me.
 

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tough love mostly
I can be a bitch sometimes, and I need people to put me into place
but if I’m already stressed, tough live will only give me a breakdown :wimwim:
 
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I grew up with & give myself tough love lol
I don’t rlly need tough love since I already mostly know on my own.
Supportive love ig
 
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I'd definitely need tough love but I'm being showered with normal love :sadcat:
you just have to tell me and you would get tough love :sadcat:
 

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honestly I need both in a way. I need someone who gives me my freedom but who also is protective? it‘s weird explaining it
 

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tough love for losing weight supportive love for basically everything else LOL
 

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my bf ends up too soft tho bc he helps me keep track of my food but then also gets happy when i make really unhealthy food bc it looks so g ood i-
 

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I DON'T UNDERSTAND
What do you mean? Tough love is like kind of being super blunt and honest about how your actions are being taken or coming across or doing to you or others and making sure it's clear. It can be considered pretty harsh having facts shoved at you that you may not want to come to terms with.

The other one is kind of just being very loving, sweet, caring nad not necessarily putting the truth of the matter out there.
 
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What do you mean? Tough love is like kind of being super blunt and honest about how your actions are being taken or coming across or doing to you or others and making sure it's clear. It can be considered pretty harsh having facts shoved at you that you may not want to come to terms with.

The other one is kind of just being very loving, sweet, caring nad not necessarily putting the truth of the matter out there.
:naeunshock: wait what is blunt lol :umwhat:
 
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