🏳️‍🌈 Tell me what part of the LGBTQIA+ Community you are and~ (1 Viewer)

[Chaeee]

Which part do you need a definition for?

What made you feel comfortable identifying as nb?

 

[athenaaa]

What made you feel comfortable identifying as nb?

Well this is actually a bit of a story, mostly rooted in trauma.

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I had an ex who sexually used me and I am still coming to terms with it to this day. I'm not going to get into what exactly he did to me because it is very triggering. But I was already questioning my gender before that. I toxically thought to myself "if I was born a boy that wouldn't have happened" so I started using he/him pronouns but I realized it was trauma based. I know I was still not fully female though, so nb felt right. I thrive with they/them pronouns, however, I'm okay with he/him or she/her because I won't correct them.

 

[Chaeee]

Well this is actually a bit of a story, mostly rooted in trauma.

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I had an ex who sexually used me and I am still coming to terms with it to this day. I'm not going to get into what exactly he did to me because it is very triggering. But I was already questioning my gender before that. I toxically thought to myself "if I was born a boy that wouldn't have happened" so I started using he/him pronouns but I realized it was trauma based. I know I was still not fully female though, so nb felt right. I thrive with they/them pronouns, however, I'm okay with he/him or she/her because I won't correct them.

Oh gosh I’m so sorry about all that as long as you’re comfortable labelling yourself as nb that’s all that matters. I hope you’re happier now x

 

[athenaaa]

Oh gosh I’m so sorry about all that as long as you’re comfortable labelling yourself as nb that’s all that matters. I hope you’re happier now x

Very much happy now
I'm healing from that experience, and I have now surrounded myself around good people.
Ngl I thought it was gonna be the greysexual part that would have questions cause most people ask about this

 

[Chaeee]

Very much happy now
I'm healing from that experience, and I have now surrounded myself around good people.
Ngl I thought it was gonna be the greysexual part that would have questions cause most people ask about this

Actually, what is greysexuality ? I’ve never heard the term b4

 

[athenaaa]

Actually, what is greysexuality ? I’ve never heard the term b4

It's on the asexuality spectrum. Basically in simple terms I barely experience sexual attraction but it's not 0%

• Experiencing sexual attraction infrequently
• Experiencing sexual attraction very weakly
• Experiencing sexual attraction only in specific circumstances
• Feeling uncertain about whether they experience sexual attraction

So basically a very rare occurrence of sexual attraction but when you do feel it, it's special. Even less so than demisexuality, because I could have a strong emotional and romantic bond but no sexual desire. I think some of this is trauma based though too

 

[Chaeee]

It's on the asexuality spectrum. Basically in simple terms I barely experience sexual attraction but it's not 0%

• Experiencing sexual attraction infrequently
• Experiencing sexual attraction very weakly
• Experiencing sexual attraction only in specific circumstances
• Feeling uncertain about whether they experience sexual attraction

So basically a very rare occurrence of sexual attraction but when you do feel it, it's special. Even less so than demisexuality, because I could have a strong emotional and romantic bond but no sexual desire. I think some of this is trauma based though too

I was going to say that is a very sweet and warming bc it’s special, but then I saw trauma :((

 

[athenaaa]

I was going to say that is a very sweet and warming bc it’s special, but then I saw trauma :((

It's okay!
I just don't see myself having a sexual relationship, but asexuality didn't feel right for me. But I didn't want to say bisexual either because that's my romantic attraction. Then I learned about greysexuality and I felt that fit me where I'm at right now

 

[Willow]

Pan but homoromantic

 

[Juniverse]

Bisexual

 

[Chaeee]

Bisexual

 

[Melon]

Bi <3

 

[Chaeee]

Pan but homoromantic

I tried to find homoromantic but I didn’t know which one was right T_T

 

[Hoemantic]

I am trans bi-gender and pansexual

 

[Willow]

I tried to find homoromantic but I didn’t know which one was right T_T

So cute

 

[Deleted member 74]

I'm bi
(still trying to accept it)

 

[Yonk]

lesbian and nonbinary

 

[Itto]

i'm asexual

 

[shika]

panromantic asexual

 

[Chaeee]

panromantic asexual

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