How good of a friend are you? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Would you say you are a good friend or not? What are some things you are good at and some things you could work on and change?

Spoiler: me

I think I'm a pretty good friend overall - my heart is in the right place and I always have a lot of support and good advice for my friends, but I feel like I should do more, go further for them but I'm anxious about it... I've also seen myself change in some ways as time went by because of the people I've been surrounded with, it's something I allowed to happen and I dislike it.. what I mean is becoming more fake, more of a hypocrite somehow? idk.. I want to go back to the time before the world changed me, basically. I think my former self was better hehe

 

[Abeamus]

Depends on what someones definition of a good friend is. If they call a good friend someone who blows smoke up their ass and blindly sticks by them then that won't be me cause I ain't gonna blow smoke up your ass and if you do something bad i'm gonna call you out on it not blindly stick by you.

Which if their definition of a good friend is someone who calls them out on their crap but in a way that is to help them improve not just to make them feel bad and as well stick up for them if they are in the right or be there for them if they are upset then I would fit that definition.

 

[Hajima]

usually i am the good friend who no one cares about :hmm:

 

[baekk]

I'm a good friend if they're good back to me

 

[kodoku]

usually i am the good friend who no one cares about :hmm:

you deserve appreciation

 

[Mew]

Hmmm, well i always say i'm not a good friend, im cold, distance, not cuddly don't do text or online convo much, not the most sympathetic in general.
But i suppose for the times i'm not available when i intend to see a friends i will see them and talk to them like we see each other everyday, listen and remember all they have to tell me cause i find their lives interesting. i suppose they understand i'm a very face to face person rather a social media person.

 

[kuro]

@Jimimis
i'm a great friend, and an even greate waifu

 

[Jimimis]

@Jimimis
i'm a great friend, and an even greate waifu

IM BETTER

 

[kuro]

IM BETTER

I WORK MY BUTT OFF IN THIS RELATIONSHIP OK?

 

[Jimimis]

I WORK MY BUTT OFF IN THIS RELATIONSHIP OK?

SO DO I

 

[emptycup]

I think i'm a good friend.
I'm caring, supportive, etc.
I also remember birthdays.... if I know of them.

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[kuro]

SO DO I

I WORK MORE THAN YOU

 

[blueberries]

Well I think myself as rather good friend, i'm ready to support my friends, give them my time, advice, hear them out and so on. But for me it's bit hard to know line between clinginess and avoidance lol, I mean when I should reach out since I don't want to appear too overbearing, but in other hand I can be pretty distant too without even meaning to xd

 

[lexus]

I only have online friends, but I think I'm a good friend to people. I'm willing to listen to my friends when they need to vent to me and I try to give them the best advice possible. I try to do anything I can to help them.

 

[Deleted member 74]

I think I am online but not irl, but that might be because I’m quiet online and don’t act the way I do irl
Every friendship ends in an argument because of something I say, then it falls apart so I’m guessing I hurt people’s feelings without knowing, because I just want to be honest and have it be real instead of what I see everywhere

 

[Xoxo7]

I don't have friends

 

[jasque]

I'm selfish and rarely pay attention to them

So a terrible one ig? lol

 

[jasque]

im a good friend i visited my friend in the hospital after he tore his acl

woah i wish I was as good as that xD

 

[ripiasuju]

I am not the one to answer the question.

@BaiPinTing I summon you.

But nah I dont have any friends tbh. Irl I am a loner I only got my nephews and nieces but there are a lot of them so I never feel alone.

Online I only have a few friends now. I can count them on 1 hand. I think they would all say I'm good. But the past friends would say the opposite so who knows if I'm good or not.

 

[mysteric]

I’m okay I guess. I’m kind of bad at expressing myself, whether with words or actions, so sometimes I just panic and do nothing. I try my best, but that’s not to say that I’m good lmao. There are too many friendships that I lost due to my fear of initiation