What do you envy others on the most? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Spoiler: me

I envy people the most on being physically and mentally perfectly healthy, normal, beautiful and just bright.......being able to carelessly and sincerely laugh, to live fully and fearlessly, to be filled with youth, beauty, and liveliness...they do it so naturally, without even trying yet for me it's just a faraway dream. I'll keep trying though

 

[Jimimis]

God, why was I given the task of enlightening people to Dotae? Why can’t I just be carefree like everyone else?

 

[taemkitten]

I envy people who are thin and those that are healthy (and those that are both) - especially when they don't have to work so hard to be thin or healthy meanwhile I'm pushing myself day in and day out to be healthy and just lose any weight in the process, and all my hard work combined still only loses me two pounds in two weeks.

Things like that make me feel discouraged too.

 

[kodoku]

I envy people who are thin and those that are healthy (and those that are both) - especially when they don't have to work so hard to be thin or healthy meanwhile I'm pushing myself day in and day out to be healthy and just lose any weight in the process, and all my hard work combined still only loses me two pounds in two weeks.

Things like that make me feel discouraged too.

you & me = the same. Let's not give up though, I believe I gained a lot of weight lately........ bye all I accomplished >_< if you'd like we can do it together, just pm me anytime and we can talk and plan stuff. stay strong, you really can do it <3

 

[Mangoey]

For me I'd say it's people who are naturally good with people, since I'm quite bad at talking to others.
I'm working on it though, so 👌

I hope you get to live how you want to someday too. It'll happen don't worry.

 

[Koala]

I envy the people who really gain determination to strengthen things,or fix them head on. I acknowledge I have pride,but I still can’t stop it from the fact their are things with people I want to try again with but I don’t ever act on them and just keep distance.

So anyone who really just tosses pride out

 

[DAIRYQUEEN]

I envy people who have parents that genuinely care for them and their mental health Also, in general, then I envy people who are extroverted, easy going & usually liked by most. :pepecheer:

 

[maruberry]

People who can maintain a weight.

I see people in this thread who has trouble loosing it... I have trouble gaining weight. At the moment I am almost at my ideal weight, but it is such a struggle to keep it around where it should be and not get unhealthily thin.

 

[Peach]

This seems bit shallow but.. I envy people who don't care what they look like and have no problem uploading their pictures online. I have a really bad body dysmorphia to the point I don't want to see my face on the pictures taken by others. Sometimes I don't even let anyone take pictures of me (ngl, I can even get angry if they try to do it because my mum has a habit of uploading everything on FB) and because of this I barely have any photos of myself, especially my teenage years. I looked at my high school class pictures and I wanted to cry because of how badly I ruined the photo, obviously this is all in my head, I know it but I can't get these thoughts out of my head. All my photos are selfies because of this reason and even then I take not one, but A LOT, to just find that right one, which I probably don't like much either.

 

[kodoku]

This seems bit shallow but.. I envy people who don't care what they look like and have no problem uploading their pictures online. I have a really bad body dysmorphia to the point I don't want to see my face on the pictures taken by others. Sometimes I don't even let anyone take pictures of me (ngl, I can even get angry if they try to do it because my mum has a habit of uploading everything on FB) and because of this I barely have any photos of myself, especially my teenage years. I looked at my high school class pictures and I wanted to cry because of how badly I ruined the photo. All my photos are selfies because of this reason and even then I take not one, but A LOT, to just find that right one, which I probably don't like much either.

100 % me, you are not alone

 

[Peach]

100 % me, you are not alone

I hate this so much.

In the public I tend to avoid mirrors too, like in the changing rooms, when I try something on, I just try to avoid looking at my face. :pepesad:

 

[kodoku]

I hate this so much.

In the public I tend to avoid mirrors too, like in the changing rooms, when I try something on, I just try to avoid looking at my face. :pepesad:

me too, it's unbearable and I can never get used to it even now... I have no pictures of mysef, I don't even go anywhere where I could take them because of things like this... both my face and body, I can't stand it TT we can work on it though, getting better, being our best version and most importantly accepting ourselves, stay strong because you too have beauty in you <3

 

[Bopper]

Those who have social lives, and those who have two working ears.

 

[Peach]

me too, it's unbearable and I can never get used to it even now... I have no pictures of mysef, I don't even go anywhere where I could take them because of things like this... both my face and body, I can't stand it TT we can work on it though, getting better, being our best version and most importantly accepting ourselves, stay strong because you too have beauty in you <3

I hope so! I am certain you're a beautiful person both inside and outside as well, I mean you're really kind to the users on here, and that already makes you beautiful to me and the others. I hope you as well can overcome this even if it's hard.

 

[kodoku]

I hope so! I am certain you're a beautiful person both inside and outside as well, I mean you're really kind to the users on here, and that already makes you beautiful to me and the others. I hope you as well can overcome this even if it's hard.

thanks!! some say I am pretty and all that, but I can't see it. Maybe.. someday.. hehe <3

 

[dooh]

people having some kinda talent or at least good in doing something..
i wished i would be good in something :llama_smooch:

 

[kodoku]

people having some kinda talent or at least good in doing something..
i wished i would be good in something :llama_smooch:

I really think everyone is good at something, maybe you haven't discovered it yet or you aren't aware of it but there's something for sure :)

 

[igloo]

Those who are great at what they love and who don’t fight themselves to succeed.

 

[dooh]

I really think everyone is good at something, maybe you haven't discovered it yet or you aren't aware of it but there's something for sure :)

I know, i might sound stupid to care about something like that, if you consider, i can live in peace, without worrying having something to eat/drink or bombs above my head / war. I should be grateful !

 

[kodoku]

I know, i might sound stupid to care about something like that, if you consider, i can live in peace, without worrying having something to eat/drink or bombs above my head / war. I should be grateful !

you don't sound stupid at all, it's perfectly natural and understandable... maybe you could try new things and find something you are good at that way, and also look, it doesn't matter if you're good at it as long as you enjoy it and it brings you happiness, right? do what you love, be happy <3