Has a friend ever betrayed you? (1 Viewer)

[Nina]

Have you been betrayed by a very close friend?

I was once upon a time . . .
I had a small black Coach card wallet. It was adorable and it was a gift from my uncle. At the time, my brother would steal my money often Money I fucking earned.
So I started carrying it with me everywhere every second o.o
Plus I wanted to buy my mom something nice for her birthday so I needed that money.
Ended up losing my wallet weeks before my mom's birthday. Asked all my friends and the school if anyone had seen it or picked it up.

Months go by, couldn't get my mom the present I had in mind and it was well forgotten at that point. My friends and I knew each other's locker combinations and would go through each other bags to like get a pen or tampon, trustworthy friend type of shit.
I looked in one of my friend's bag for something. She was a super close friend. Her and I had the same exact schedule and rotation that year so we stuck together like glue. I saw my black wallet in her bag. Other than my ID, it was empty. When I asked, girl went silent like she was a victim. Didn't even make an excuse like, "I don't know how that got there," or "ohmygod Stephanopolis! How dare you frame me."

I didn't completely cut her off, because I was a shitty pushover x.x
We were sort of like friendly acquaintances up until graduation. Current Nina would have definitely thrown a bitch fit.​

 

[Exi]

Have you been betrayed by a very close friend?

I was once upon a time . . .
I had a small black Coach card wallet. It was adorable and it was a gift from my uncle. At the time, my brother would steal my money often Money I fucking earned.
So I started carrying it with me everywhere every second o.o
Plus I wanted to buy my mom something nice for her birthday so I needed that money.
Ended up losing my wallet weeks before my mom's birthday. Asked all my friends and the school if anyone had seen it or picked it up.

Months go by, couldn't get my mom the present I had in mind and it was well forgotten at that point. My friends and I knew each other's locker combinations and would go through each other bags to like get a pen or tampon, trustworthy friend type of shit.
I looked in one of my friend's bag for something. She was a super close friend. Her and I had the same exact schedule and rotation that year so we stuck together like glue. I saw my black wallet in her bag. Other than my ID, it was empty. When I asked, girl went silent like she was a victim. Didn't even make an excuse like, "I don't know how that got there," or "ohmygod Stephanopolis! How dare you frame me."

I didn't completely cut her off, because I was a shitty pushover x.x
We were sort of like friendly acquaintances up until graduation. Current Nina would have definitely thrown a bitch fit.​

Bruh wth

 

[suexoo]

no but... im the one that betray my friend and felt sorry about it

 

[Ahsoka]

Nothing that bad, just "friends" talking shit about me and my other friends to some people. Compared to yours that makes mine sound almost friendly.

 

[Dreamer_of_Songs]

Yes. While she wasn't a close friend, the girl was still part of our friend circle. Me, her (I will call her H), and one other girl (I will name her T) all used to go to Boys & Girls Club after school in our school (this was a thing in the mid to late 2000s in my state). It was my second year returning to Boys & Girls Club and we had a chess class in our homeroom classroom in the daytime (it was located in the basement right next to the cafeteria). H, who we thought was our friend, ended up stealing one of the teacher's grade book from her desk. T and I didn't know about this because we were playing a game of chess when it all happened.


The next day during homeroom class, our daytime teachers asked the Boys & Girls Club students in our class about the missing grade book. One of the Teachers, let's call her Ms. O, wanted to blame T for the incident. I defended T because I was playing chess with her the entire time. What was funny about this was that H wasn't here at all. She hasn't been in school since the day the grade book went missing. T and I along with some other friends in our group realized that H stole the grade brook and left the school completely after that incident.

The girl was trying to get us in trouble for this shit but instead, they moved the Chess class for Boys & Girls club to another classroom after that incident.

What was even worst, was that she dated my older cousin at that time

At least this bitch was never seen again

 

[Nina]

Bruh wth

honestly lost so many friends being a pushover.
Find your backbone people o.o

no but... im the one that betray my friend and felt sorry about it

You live and you learn. Good you can recognize and feel something about it.

Nothing that bad, just "friends" talking shit about me and my other friends to some people. Compared to yours that makes mine sound almost friendly.

It is so hard to escape shit-talkers. When I was at my cousin's, all the moms would gather around to shit talk everyone in the family, including each other kids if they weren't around. Us cousins luckily call them out on it. It the dumbest shit too. "ohmygod they want to wear cotton to the wedding, with gold. What a sin!!!!!"

Yes. While she wasn't a close friend, the girl was still part of our friend circle. Me, her (I will call her H), and one other girl (I will name her T) all used to go to Boys & Girls Club after school in our school (this was a thing in the mid to late 2000s in my state). It was my second year returning to Boys & Girls Club and we had a chess class in our homeroom classroom in the daytime (it was located in the basement right next to the cafeteria). H, who we thought was our friend, ended up stealing one of the teacher's grade book from her desk. T and I didn't know about this because we were playing a game of chess when it all happened.


The next day during homeroom class, our daytime teachers asked the Boys & Girls Club students in our class about the missing grade book. One of the Teachers, let's call her Ms. O, wanted to blame T for the incident. I defended T because I was playing chess with her the entire time. What was funny about this was that H wasn't here at all. She hasn't been in school since the day the grade book went missing. T and I along with some other friends in our group realized that H stole the grade brook and left the school completely after that incident.

The girl was trying to get us in trouble for this shit but instead, they moved the Chess class for Boys & Girls club to another classroom after that incident.

What was even worst, was that she dated my older cousin at that time

At least this bitch was never seen again

This person never returned? They just left the school?

 

[tai]

Yes. While she wasn't a close friend, the girl was still part of our friend circle. Me, her (I will call her H), and one other girl (I will name her T) all used to go to Boys & Girls Club after school in our school (this was a thing in the mid to late 2000s in my state).

omg we still have boys and girls club where i live

 

[Dreamer_of_Songs]

honestly lost so many friends being a pushover.
Find your backbone people o.o

You live and you learn. Good you can recognize and feel something about it.


It is so hard to escape shit-talkers. When I was at my cousin's, all the moms would gather around to shit talk everyone in the family, including each other kids if they weren't around. Us cousins luckily call them out on it. It the dumbest shit too. "ohmygod they want to wear cotton to the wedding, with gold. What a sin!!!!!"

This person never returned? They just left the school?

Yep. She never returned to school after that and the teachers didn't even try to find out about it.

 

[Hoemantic]

It's too long of a shitfest story to explain but I will just say as soon as I left my ex, everyone turned against me and framed me as the evil one because I decided to focus on my own mental health instead of taking care of my ex. After 5 years of trying to help someone with depression, and whatever else he had, I decided to leave because he didn't accept help, it was draining. He was just sitting there waiting for a miracle or for everyone to hand things to him. Plus, it ain't MY responsibility or job to take care of you like that. Leaving isn't selfish and I'm damn glad him and all those people are out of my life now.

 

[Day]

no but... im the one that betray my friend and felt sorry about it

I've been that friend before too. I definitely let me emotions get the best of me.

 

[Nina]

It's too long of a shitfest story to explain but I will just say as soon as I left my ex, everyone turned against me and framed me as the evil one because I decided to focus on my own mental health instead of taking care of my ex. After 5 years of trying to help someone with depression, and whatever else he had, I decided to leave because he didn't accept help, it was draining. He was just sitting there waiting for a miracle or for everyone to hand things to him. Plus, it ain't MY responsibility or job to take care of you like that. Leaving isn't selfish and I'm damn glad him and all those people are out of my life now.

Those people aren't worth having you as a friend if they can only see one person's, your ex, struggle and not the whole picture.
You're not some battery source for that one person. Good riddance.

If it's selfish then whatever. Be selfish <3

 

[athenaaa]

Yes, twice. First was an attention seeker who made up this whole lie where I apparently threatened her life (I did not). Continued to shit talk me until she transferred schools. Second was a group of friends who painted me out to be the villian. Was I perfect? No. Nobody is. But it went too far and was ignored when I was literally screaming out for help. Now I’m thriving and f*ck both of them. High school was sh*t.

 

[Dreamer_of_Songs]

omg we still have boys and girls club where i live

My city has a main Boys & Girls Club (they moved locations a few years ago). They used to have a school version of the Boys & Girls Club as part of the NJ After 3 program in the 2000s. My grammar school was one of those locations I went there for 3 years.

 

[Michael]

No such thing has happened to me. The advantage to have no friends.

 

[Jewel]

YES T_T many times. My best friend now is legitimately the only true friend I've ever had. I love him so much and literally thank the higher ups for him.

 

[dark_tranquility]

Three friends to date have.
Making fun of me or thinking I am weird.
I was so hurt deep inside.
Nowadays I just stay away from them.

 

[eclipsoul]

not really betrayed only once i told my friend she's doing dumb sh*t and putting her life in danger (she has a heart disease and began smoking and getting drunk with her sh*tty classmates when she was still a minor) and then she said i'm ruining her fun and blocked me. but it did more harm for her than me so honestly idc.