piece of advice you would give your younger self? (1 Viewer)

[RainbowMoon]

I've had to parallel park semi's. it's not that hard, just don't hit the other car. If your not sure, get out and LOOK. See, simple.

Yeah, it's not that hard but I just avoid it. It's not that hard to find an open spot in a parking garage or a regular parking spot if you're downtown. Even if you can't find one that's general parking, you can usually park at a random building and they don't charge you for it.

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Yeah, it's not that hard but I just avoid it. It's not that hard to find an open spot in a parking garage or a regular parking spot if you're downtown. Even if you can't find one that's general parking, you can usually park at a random building and they don't charge you for it.

I'm sorry I didn’t mean to sound like such a jerk. I see parallel parking as challenge also, I'm the only one in my family that can do it... I got good at it out of annoyance.

 

[hxney_jun]

"DON'T GET A DRIVER'S LICENSE
YOU'RE A TERRIBLE DRIVER"

- love, your loving future self.

get a license, drive badly, become a passenger princess
that's the way to go

 

[hxney_jun]

oh here's another one for myself:
guys are not worth it when you're young. idc how much he makes you feel like you matter in that moment.. just wait. it'll be worth it.

 

[RainbowMoon]

I'm sorry I didn’t mean to sound like such a jerk. I see parallel parking as challenge also, I'm the only one in my family that can do it... I got good at it out of annoyance.

Oh no, don't worry! You did nothing wrong and I'm sorry if I made you think that you sounded like that. I took it as more of a jokey thing
LMAO good for you XD I could never...I'm almost 90% that I would crash either into the car in front of me or in the car behind me. I just avoid it at all costs and I was praying to GOD that I didn't have to do parallel parking on my driver's road test...

I saw videos of people having to do that and I started FREAKING THE EFF OUT!!!

(For context, I watched videos of others who took their driver's road test, recorded it, and then shared it to a driving test channel to post on YouTube. It actually helps calm nerves and gives you sort of an idea of what to expect [even if you don't know the person and they live more than 500 miles away from you], what to do and not to do, etc. I did it to prepare for mine and it helped SO MUCH.)

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Oh no, don't worry! You did nothing wrong and I'm sorry if I made you think that you sounded like that. I took it as more of a jokey thing
LMAO good for you XD I could never...I'm almost 90% that I would crash either into the car in front of me or in the car behind me. I just avoid it at all costs and I was praying to GOD that I didn't have to do parallel parking on my driver's road test...

I saw videos of people having to do that and I started FREAKING THE EFF OUT!!!

(For context, I watched videos of others who took their driver's road test, recorded it, and then shared it to a driving test channel to post on YouTube. It actually helps calm nerves and gives you sort of an idea of what to expect [even if you don't know the person and they live more than 500 miles away from you], what to do and not to do, etc. I did it to prepare for mine and it helped SO MUCH.)

Ok, I just reread what I wrote and felt I could of worded it more politely with less arrogance. I don't second guess myself often but when I do it's an entire rabbit hole from Meh to crap to OMG, they're all gonna hate me.

 

[RainbowMoon]

Ok, I just reread what I wrote and felt I could of worded it more politely with less arrogance. I don't second guess myself often but when I do it's an entire rabbit hole from Meh to crap to OMG, they're all gonna hate me.

LMAO no, you're fine! Don't worry about it.
HAHA I'm the opposite...I literally worry too much and overthink things. Like I do one thing wrong and I think "omg, I'm doomed...no one's gonna like me after this!" When really, it's more like I completely forgot to pay them back like a dollar or something XD

It used to be so bad that I would be so worried when I notice that someone doesn't like me that much. I mean, it's going to happen but I would always try to do my best to salvage whatever happened even if I didn't do anything wrong...

It's a thing I need to work on 😅

 

[StirFriedPanda]

LMAO no, you're fine! Don't worry about it.
HAHA I'm the opposite...I literally worry too much and overthink things. Like I do one thing wrong and I think "omg, I'm doomed...no one's gonna like me after this!" When really, it's more like I completely forgot to pay them back like a dollar or something XD

It used to be so bad that I would be so worried when I notice that someone doesn't like me that much. I mean, it's going to happen but I would always try to do my best to salvage whatever happened even if I didn't do anything wrong...

It's a thing I need to work on 😅

Ha, I'm the total opposite, I worry when people like me! I have a huge imposter syndrome issue.

 

[RainbowMoon]

Ha, I'm the total opposite, I worry when people like me! I have a huge imposter syndrome issue.

Welp...I guess we can suffer together

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Welp...I guess we can suffer together

It's always good to have friends who have the same hobbies!

 

[MK3AM]

dont trust people so easily!

 

[RainbowMoon]

It's always good to have friends who have the same hobbies!

Yep, true!
That's interesting that you mentioned that because I've met people that go to my school who like KPOP but I never got a chance to connect with them. Either I never tried or it would be too late. There was one that moved out of state, one that we just grew apart because I don't have any classes with her, one in my class that I want to be friends with but never get a chance to talk to...

I have two friends who are K-drama fans and they're already fans of Jisoo because of her performance in Snowdrop. Maybe I can brainwash convince them to become KPOP fans


I really want to make a KPOP/K-drama club but I'm so shy...😭

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Yep, true!
That's interesting that you mentioned that because I've met people that go to my school who like KPOP but I never got a chance to connect with them. Either I never tried or it would be too late. There was one that moved out of state, one that we just grew apart because I don't have any classes with her, one in my class that I want to be friends with but never get a chance to talk to...

I have two friends who are K-drama fans and they're already fans of Jisoo because of her performance in Snowdrop. Maybe I can brainwash convince them to become KPOP fans


I really want to make a KPOP/K-drama club but I'm so shy...😭

You only live once and you only get once chance at youth. You should do it!

 

[Jungwonie]

Don't try so hard to impress others and just be you

 

[RainbowMoon]

get a license, drive badly, become a passenger princess
that's the way to go

Sounds even better ngl 🤣

 

[RainbowMoon]

You only live once and you only get once chance at youth. You should do it!

I'm seriously thinking about it for my senior year!
I don't want to start it this year because our school year ends in May and that means that the club will only be open for only a little more than 3 months.
I mean, why do start with only 3 when you start at 10?

 

[StirFriedPanda]

I'm seriously thinking about it for my senior year!
I don't want to start it this year because our school year ends in May and that means that the club will only be open for only a little more than 3 months.
I mean, why do start with only 3 when you start at 10?

Because 3 months of something is 3 months of nothing. And you will be starting something other can enjoy after your gone.

 

[RainbowMoon]

Because 3 months of something is 3 months of nothing. And you will be starting something other can enjoy after your gone.

True...but I honestly don't think I have time for it now. And from what I've seen, creating a club as a student isn't an easy task whether you gotta get out of your comfort zone or you have no trouble talking to people. I'm sort of jealous of teachers who create clubs because they don't have to do the most important and probably the most difficult step.

1. Ask the front office if they know anything about creating clubs as a student OR ask the student leaders of club that I'm in how they did it
2. Start brainstorming potential members (I already have met some students at my school who are fans of KPOP or K-DRAMA)
3. Start brainstorming potential chaperones (you need to have at least one teacher to provide a classroom since the clubs take place during the school day and to chaperone the whole thing, whether they get involved in activities or not) - it's harder for students because obviously teachers have their own classrooms and can be their own chaperones. I also want to choose one that I know, won't think that KPOP or KDRAMA is weird and does not already have a club of their own.
4. Email potential chaperones - this may be hard depending on whether they're interested enough and have enough time for it. This would also include how often we would meet up.
5. After getting a chaperone and planning out the club a little bit more, actually ask some students if they'd be interested. Maybe do a petition or Google Form to increase the chance of it actually being made
6. Pitch the idea to an admin member - either a dean, whole school principal or an asst. principal (this will be hard for me because I don't really have the balls to talk to them and I'd be worried that they'll turn it down)
7. Advertise the club - we'll have to ask if we can do posters in the hallways or on student annoucements (either video or email) but if we aren't able to make that, we could do word of mouth or share it with our teachers to post to their Google Classrooms.

It's all coming together but it seems so far away...