Do you generally care about what people think? (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

Spoiler: me

I guess I mostly do? not because I want to be popular or something like that lol (never was) but because I'm just sensitive and idealistic and always want people to get along and treat each other well, I hate conflict and sometimes I don't take it well when I feel someone dislikes me or has a problem with the kind of person that I am. That might be completely irrational, I know, because everyone's different and it's impossible for everyone to like each other lol.

 

[Abeamus]

No, people are free to love me or hate me but i'm just gonna be me regardless.

 

[Walnutt]

Yes, way too much lol

 

[Deleted member 74]

I learnt that even if I try to be someone who is well liked, it doesn't work out and me being different from the people I'm surrounded by isn't a bad thing it just means less people will understand what kind of person I am
So my answer would be no now, but it took me a longer time than anyone knows to get to this point

 

[blueberries]

I used to care way too much, I actually even got social anxiety over it. Lot less nowadays which is good. Everyone has an opinion, most don't matter. You know yourself best and what you think and know is true about you and what people that matter to you think is only things that matter.

 

[DAIRYQUEEN]

 

[Discipline]

Not really, after struggling with not caring enough and then caring too much, I think I've found a good balance between the two, though I tend to fall on the not caring enough side nowadays again, but yeah. I've adapted my mindset to people being temporary and that they will come and go, so I tend to not care too much but this doesn't mean that I will be mean to them or anything like that. It's more like, I won't appease to them in hopes of them liking me or things like that.

 

[honeyfornomoney]

I used to and was getting upset about the tiniest things ppl said about me. But now I got more confidence and even when I hear ppl making mean jokes about me I don't care lol I love my progress

 

[Jimimis]

How am I gonna marry Jimin if I don’t care what he thinks about me

 

[ripiasuju]

yes I do care. but I dont care if people dislike me cause of a stupid reason they can go to hell

 

[AnotherKpopTrash]

Generally, I try not to. It's not very effective though. I always end of caring anyways.

 

[igloo]

i do care about knowing, but not necessarily about changing their minds. if someone dislikes me, i want to know why, but if it's not for a reason i see as really valid, then i don't care about changing that. and if they're being difficult then i won't get hung up on them, even if they might cross my mind sometimes.

 

[Ineul_Ze]

When it comes to people talking about my weight, yeah, I care.

Anything else though, nope. I don’t have the time of day to change things about me for people who I won’t ever see in my life. I’m comfortable with my personality and I know my flaws, I know I can be a bit of a brutal bitch when it comes to honesty but I’m not really going to change that because I know when not to be. I know my limitations.

 

[Ringwanderung]

@kodoku are you me

 

[kodoku]

@kodoku are you me

 

[Ringwanderung]

but i was being serious m’lady :llama_sniffle:

 

[kodoku]

but i was being serious m’lady :llama_sniffle:

well let's see, what makes you think we are the same person? 🤔

 

[Ringwanderung]

well let's see, what makes you think we are the same person? 🤔

i relate to 99% of what u wrote??

 

[kodoku]

i relate to 99% of what u wrote??

omg we are one and the same!

 

[Ringwanderung]

omg we are one and the same!

eye- i’d never thought you’d post that type of gif :nosejoo: we are long-lost siblings!!
but im kinda idealistic and blind 2 reality