When someone says “be honest with me” (1 Viewer)

[athenaaa]

Are you straight up honest even if it’s mean? Or do you sugarcoat it? I’m straight up honest even if it’s mean

 

[Villains]

sugarcoat. i don't know, i just can't be straight up

 

[Ahsoka]

It really depends on if they can take it.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

Depends who is asking and on my mood, but generally yes, if I think they can actually handle said truth.

 

[Day]

Be 1000% honest. If they didn't want that, then they shouldn't have come to me.

 

[athenaaa]

Be 1000% honest. If they didn't want that, then they shouldn't have come to me.

Agreed 100%

 

[eclipsoul]

it depends on the situation tbh i am honest most of the time but i was raised to believe that sometimes it's better to keep things to yourself and i agree with that, unless it is a life and death situation i prefer not to tell people things that may genuinely hurt them i just don't think it's worth it

 

[StirFriedPanda]

If you tell me to be honest your probably going to learn something's you didn't want to but, I try to be nice, and I try to teach. Unless you made me mad... Then your probably going to cry...

 

[centen]

"Honest" isn't the same as "cruel." You can be 100% truthful without being mean about it.

Even a generic example like "Do you like my boyfriend?" I can honestly answer that I don't know him that well, but I don't think he's someone I would normally spend time with, without having to also add on "And he's fucking ugly, why are you dating down?"

 

[athenaaa]

"Honest" isn't the same as "cruel." You can be 100% truthful without being mean about it.

Even a generic example like "Do you like my boyfriend?" I can honestly answer that I don't know him that well, but I don't think he's someone I would normally spend time with, without having to also add on "And he's fucking ugly, why are you dating down?"

Or you could say yes and they interpret as you like like them

 

[doll]

im always honest, with opinions and feelings

 

[MK3AM]

Im going to tell you straight up even if its mean its what I would want if I asked that question.

 

[Selfmate]

depends on the context
nothing is ever black and white and the circumstances matter

there's a difference between " does this look make me look fat, be honest with me " and " should I go out with xyz, be honest with me "

 

[athenaaa]

depends on the context
nothing is ever black and white and the circumstances matter

there's a difference between " does this look make me look fat, be honest with me " and " should I go out with xyz, be honest with me "

My responses would be “yes it does, don’t buy it” and “no, she’s an asshole”

 

[Selfmate]

My responses would be “yes it does, don’t buy it” and “no, she’s an asshole”

so then in what situations would you say tell a white lie my friend?

 

[athenaaa]

so then in what situations would you say tell a white lie my friend?

I don’t

 

[Selfmate]

I don’t

interesting not even to children or little kids?

 

[athenaaa]

interesting not even to children or little kids?

Well I believe there’s a difference between adults and children. I work with children for context. I believe children shouldn’t be completely shielded from the realities of the world. But also they can benefit from you telling them that they have a pretty drawing even when it looks like crap.

 

[Selfmate]

Well I believe there’s a difference between adults and children. I work with children for context. I believe children shouldn’t be completely shielded from the realities of the world. But also they can benefit from you telling them that they have a pretty drawing even when it looks like crap.

so are you always honest with adults then?

 

[athenaaa]

so are you always honest with adults then?

Yes