The dangers of saying “you should smile more” to a female (1 Viewer)

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Ugh for real, i'll smile if i have smth to smile about.

But when i laugh about their fantastic jokes going up in flames or them looking like bafoons then suddenly i shoukd stop smiling xD
 
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So....... don't say ANYTHING. Got it.

Important Mental Note ~ Do not make any verbal contact with women for possibility likelihood of dire consequences.

Then, should I officially redact all of my compliments to female KPOP artists??? ::: suddenly in a frantically panicking and terrified state :::::
 
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So....... don't say ANYTHING. Got it.

Important Mental Note ~ Do not make any verbal contact with women for possibility likelihood of dire consequences.

Then, should I officially redact all of my compliments to female KPOP artists??? ::: suddenly in a frantically panicking and terrified state :::::
Well the way I see it is that if you're telling a female she should do x but you would never tell a man to do the same thing in the exact same circumstance then probably don't say it, so basically just don't be sexist. There is a whole range of words you can string together that aren't sexist so I think you'll be just fine, unless you're the type of person who gets offended when people don't appreciate sexist remarks of something idk.
Plus "you should smile more" is not a compliment at all.
 
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I meant my post to be humorous because of the photo.

Actually, I was initially hesitant to post it, believe it or not, thinking it might go in a deeper direction like this.

I know women dislike or hate being randomly catcalled or told things like this by complete strangers and I never do that.
 
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I meant my post to be humorous because of the photo.

Actually, I was initially hesitant to post it, believe it or not, thinking it might go in a deeper direction like this.

I know women dislike or hate being randomly catcalled or told things like this by complete strangers and I never do that.
I didn't realize that it was meant as a joke because sadly there are some men who would react to someone telling them to not say something sexist that would react that way and cry about how oppressed/controlled/whatever they are. I didn't really get that impression from you from other posts but I didn't realize you meant it as a joke. Sorry about that.
 
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I didn't realize that it was meant as a joke because sadly there are some men who would react to someone telling them to not say something sexist that would react that way and cry about how oppressed/controlled/whatever they are. I didn't really get that impression from you from other posts but I didn't realize you meant it as a joke. Sorry about that.
No, you don't need to apologize. I should apologize to you because, by now, I thought you totally understood my dry(?), boring(?) humor or however you might interpret it.

I guess I should consider using more emotes to avoid misunderstandings.
I mean...... if the site had the normal, yellow, round cartoon faces... Then, I'll begin..... ::::: hint, hint, nudge, nudge...::: Just kidding. :mgblush:
 
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