“You’re really pretty for a big girl” (1 Viewer)

[athenaaa]

Whats your opinion on comments like this? I feel it to be very backhanded. Like it implies that one can’t be bigger and beautiful at the same time ​

 

[lexus]

If you think someone is pretty then there is nothing wrong with that, but it's completely unnecessary to say "for a big person". If they're pretty just say they're pretty and leave the other crap out

 

[athenaaa]

If you think someone is pretty then there is nothing wrong with that, but it's completely unnecessary to say "for a big person". If they're pretty just say they're pretty and leave the other crap out

Completely agree

 

[seungfloral]

It's quite simple to see what they wanted to say. "I would find u unattractive cause of your size, but since you are acctractive enough i'll pass on my initial rejection."

It's the same when guys say , "Fat girls have such good hair and bomb make up" :/

 

[Ahsoka]

I’d be tempted to reply “you’re really ugly for a small girl” or “you’re really stupid for a human” or other rude things like that. Obviously I wouldn’t actually but the temptation would be there

 

[athenaaa]

I’d be tempted to reply “you’re really ugly for a small girl” or “you’re really stupid for a human” or other rude things like that. Obviously I wouldn’t actually but the temptation would be there

Good idea

 

[Jewel]

Depends on context and relationship with said person

 

[StirFriedPanda]

That's not a compliment. That's something a dick says. Either they are pretty or not. Size has nothing to do with it.

 

[athenaaa]

That's not a compliment. That's something a dick says. Either they are pretty or not. Size has nothing to do with it.

PREACH!

 

[ChiaraStar169]

yeah, that's uncalled for. If you think someone's pretty, great - go ahead and say it! But to add "for a big girl/guy"? Not only is it completely unnecessary, but it makes you sound... *draws a blank* well, whatever the term is for prejudice against people of certain body types, it makes you sound like one!