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Thank you for forgiving me! I'll make sure to be more careful from now on.
No problem! ^^ I hear your struggles on you feel
I feel the same way irl but I just feel more shameful :sanapray:
I hope we can be close ^^
 

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Thank you, no one really called me rude but I just truly thought that that's what people were thinking about me.
Sometimes our traitor brain makes us think things that aren't true. It's really hard to do in the moment (at least to me), but something I've found helpful later is to ask myself "what do this person's actions say?" If someone shows up, responds to you, is friendly toward you, etc. etc. even if imperfectly, then their actions say they like you. And since you can never see in another person's brain, I've found it easier to trust in how they are acting and responding to those people like they definitely do like me. It's not to be delusional, but to trust that people are who they say they are, the same way I want people to believe that I mean the things I say and do.
 

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Hey

it’s okay I’m not rlly upset just, more concerned, I don’t like u feeling bad about yourself :(

firstly, i think you are worrying too much. A lot of times when we think bad things, it’s in our head, take a step back when you feel like that and try to destress and remind yourself that. If u need verbal reassurance, i and others are here.

secondly, if you genuinely feel there is an issue with u and someone, try to talk it out. Running off assumptions isn’t good and communication is rlly important when you feel there is a problem. Most of us here are nice, reasonable ppl and can probably work out any problems.

thirdly, don’t feel u need to change yourself for anyone. You are amazing the way you are and I appreciate your unique self. Forcing yourself to like things or be something you’re not is unhealthy

you are an amazing sweet person. Never forget that💖
 
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I can understand you when you are afraid that you feel like you wont be liked

we are always here for you :pepeheart:
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(These are the people who I wanted to apologize to the most: @MK3AM , @ManduBun , @Cupid , @Yerichu, @Jungwonie , @Yachii , @sunflower , @centen , @Pyxidis , @Exi , @DarthYouChanious, and @roses_are_rosie.) Hello everyone. I have something important to say: @adoriiq is actually me. I made that account because I felt like people didn't like me on this one because of how negative and rude I was due to my depression and anxiety. I seemed much more popular on that account and people seemed to like my personality on that one much more compared to my real personality on this account. I just feel like it would be nice to start a new chapter and since I already knew what most users on here liked, I was able to fake that I liked it too so they would like me better. I have told many lies and I am very sorry. Here are the truths about some of the lies:
I'm not an ENGENE. Jay is somewhat my bias but it always switches between him and Hesseung. (said to Jungwonie so we would get along)
I've never listened to Melanie Martinez besides her song "Playdate" and I don't know enough to be a fan. (said to different fans so we could grow closer)
Haechan and Renjun are not my favs in NCT, it always switches but it's actually mostly Mark, Johnny, Jaemin, or Taeyong. (said to sunflower since I knew those were his faves and we could get along better)
I ended my quotes with "Have a good day/night!" because I knew DarthYouChanious did that and we would have something in common plus I seemed more polite.
I used lots of emojis and hearts in order to be polite.
I pretended that I was very positive so more people would like me.
Jisoo isn't my bias in Blackpink and I'm not really a BLINK even. (I said this so I could join another fandom and I could make more friends)
I have no idea who Intak or Keeho is. (I said that I did so I would get along with ManduBun better)
Bang Chan isn't my bias in Stay Kids, Felix is. (I said that he was so I would get along with DarthYouChanious better)
I don't stan SNSD, any J-pop group, P1Harmony, Oh my girl, Nmixx, or (G)I-DLE (I pretended I did so I could get along with other people and fandoms)
My bias in Nmixx isn't Haewon, I don't have one.

I'm sorry for all the lies I told. I understand if you don't forgive me because I do deserve it but I felt too guilty about this so that is why I wanted to make this thread.
Heyyy, it's okay fam.
Lying isn't the best, but I'm glad you're being honest.
I have depression + anxiety so I know It's hard to fit in and anxiety doesn't help but don't ever forget that we like you for who you are regardless of who you stan and stuff.
Don't be afraid of being yourself fam.
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Sure, you might not have the same stan preferences as others, but that's okay!
Our different stan preferences are what make this forum so interesting and fun to interact with!
That being said, if you ever need anyone to rant to or anything, I'm here for you ^_^
Also, don't hesitate to poke any of the members, we're all here to vibe anyways ^_^
 
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Hey

it’s okay I’m not rlly upset just, more concerned, I don’t like u feeling bad about yourself :(

firstly, i think you are worrying too much. A lot of times when we think bad things, it’s in our head, take a step back when you feel like that and try to destress and remind yourself that. If u need verbal reassurance, i and others are here.

secondly, if you genuinely feel there is an issue with u and someone, try to talk it out. Running off assumptions isn’t good and communication is rlly important when you feel there is a problem. Most of us here are nice, reasonable ppl and can probably work out any problems.

thirdly, don’t feel u need to change yourself for anyone. You are amazing the way you are and I appreciate your unique self. Forcing yourself to like things or be something you’re not is unhealthy

you are an amazing sweet person. Never forget that💖
Thank you, this means a lot. ❤❤💗
 
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Heyyy, it's okay fam.
Lying isn't the best, but I'm glad you're being honest.
I have depression + anxiety so I know It's hard to fit in and anxiety doesn't help but don't ever forget that we like you for who you are regardless of who you stan and stuff.
Don't be afraid of being yourself fam.
:pepeheart:
Sure, you might not have the same stan preferences as others, but that's okay!
Our different stan preferences are what make this forum so interesting and fun to interact with!
That being said, if you ever need anyone to rant to or anything, I'm here for you ^_^
Also, don't hesitate to poke any of the members, we're all here to vibe anyways ^_^
Thank you! <3 💗
 
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I forgive you, don't worry, we all make mistakes and it's good that you said it sooner
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You didn't have to lie actually, I think we get along just fine, don't try to change for anyone, just be yourself and I just want to say that you are amazing the way you are:pandalove: I think you are sweet and really fun to talk with:kittylove:
 
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Hey, I’m not upset at all. It takes a strong person to admit their mistakes. Looking at other replies, it’s obvious that people care about you for who you are. You don’t have to pretend to be someone else, and I’m really sorry that you felt like you had to. In a sense I get it though, I have pretended to be another person because of the reputation I had under another name. For the record tho, I think you’re amazing as you are :pepecry1: :pepeheart:
 
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I just want to extend the same invitation I made to your alter ego. If you are into the card game, you may find this useful:

 

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I just want to extend the same invitation I made to your alter ego. If you are into the card game, you may find this useful:

 
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I have read that thread. I think they said it was a temporary thing, last time I read it. So I'm expecting them to return.
I was just telling you in case you were wondering why she didn't respond! :))
 
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