Sensitive I gotta stop getting into arguments with... (1 Viewer)

[Jewel]

Young k-pop fans. They put words in my mouth, talk to me like I'm their age, twist my words, makeup fake information about what I've said and etc. Like right now there's this SVT fan I'm arguing with about Pledis and Hybe. They are going on how Hybe is horrible, and Bang PD is only in for the money, and he's scum and shit like they know the ins and outs of Hybe. Assuming I'm a Hybe-loving Army who loves only BTS and that they are my faves. Which isn't true lmao. They piss me off so much.​

 

[athenaaa]

I don’t associate with the majority of young kpop fans (ofc there are a few exceptions) because like you said they do like ti twist your words.

 

[gone4good]

Your OP is so entertaining tho! Love the self-reflection approach! <3

 

[Jewel]

See fans on here GET things. Everyone here is nice and understanding. If only all k-pop communities and fans were like this.

 

[dark_tranquility]

I've never really met any..

but toxicity I would stay away.

 

[Jewel]

I've never really met any..

but toxicity I would stay away.

Glad you haven't. There are so many toxic and rude fans out there.

 

[dark_tranquility]

Glad you haven't. There are so many toxic and rude fans out there.

It makes me anxious ngl
but the rude ones yep.
That is drama nobody wants

 

[Jewel]

It makes me anxious ngl
but the rude ones yep.
That is drama nobody wants

I have to literally take a pill to calm my nerves when I get into those arguments because of my anxiety. It's ridiculous.

 

[dark_tranquility]

I have to literally take a pill to calm my nerves when I get into those arguments because of my anxiety. It's ridiculous.

That's terrible. Just to put up with their rot.
I feel you, some people are just ew, when it comes to fandom.

 

[Pirioca]

Why do you argument at all? Enjoy your music and don't care what others say.

 

[Magician]

That’s why I only interact with Kpop fans here on kps

 

[Jewel]

That’s why I only interact with Kpop fans here on kps

YES. Alot of us are like-minded. I mean have you seen all the groups and idols KPS users stan? Obvs everyone has taste

 

[ChiaraStar169]

This isn't K-pop, but back during 5SOS' SA "scandal" in 2019 (which they damn near got canceled for but obvs didn't bc it turned out to be fake), somebody on Twitter brought up this other bad shit they allegedly did (I forget what). I was like, "Don't you think they get enough flak already?" and she and her moots went right down my throat, calling me insensitive for that and being like "Can we get a fancam? We have an insensitive [derogatory term for 5SOS fans] here". I had to delete my tweet just for them to stop, because even after I stopped interacting with it, it was getting all this negative attention. And yeah, to this day, idek how a fancam would've helped even if I was being insensitive... lol

tl;dr JUST DON'T INTERACT! Same tactic as dealing with irl bullies - interaction just adds fuel to the fire. I know, easier said than done lol but try your best, okay?

 

[Jewel]

This isn't K-pop, but back during 5SOS' SA "scandal" in 2019 (which they damn near got canceled for but obvs didn't bc it turned out to be fake), somebody on Twitter brought up this other bad shit they allegedly did (I forget what). I was like, "Don't you think they get enough flak already?" and she and her moots went right down my throat, calling me insensitive for that and being like "Can we get a fancam? We have an insensitive [derogatory term for 5SOS fans] here". I had to delete my tweet just for them to stop, because even after I stopped interacting with it, it was getting all this negative attention. And yeah, to this day, idek how a fancam would've helped even if I was being insensitive... lol

tl;dr JUST DON'T INTERACT! Same tactic as dealing with irl bullies - interaction just adds fuel to the fire. I know, easier said than done lol but try your best, okay?

Will def remember this and hold back on my impulsions.