to be honest i allways thought that lesbians are accepted easier in the day to day life
i mean some even find two girls kissing sexy
but it's sad that in 2019 there are still issues like this and such a common topic is still taboo
Well tbh they actually don't. It may not be the same as gay men and gay men may have it harsher, but it doesn't mean that gay women are treated better.
For example, you just mentioned that people find two girls kissing is sexy and that is the problem. I'll show you a video which is over 10 years old but still relevant today for an example:
This video is actually what happens all the time and it's like if a girl wants to go out on a normal date with her girlfriend and then there are guys who come up to them and keep on harassing them because they can't get the hint, how do you think that makes them feel?
There is also the issue of corrective rape that straight men will rape gay women to try and turn them 'straight' and actually there is an incident like this in a Filipino tv show called 'A rich man's daughter' where a bisexual woman meets a guy and she tells him she's bisexual, but later on, he tries to rape her to make her 'straight' and only like men.
This is a youtube comment I have just seen:
'To the person thinking lesbians are always pissed off, there is a reason, the reason being that there is already a struggle for acceptance, and that so many straight woman are somewhat proving the stereotype that being gay is a choice and that you could be straight if you want to, as well as using it as a tool just to please men'
So, people may find when two girls kissing is 'hot', yet there are still many issues that happen surrounding this particular thing.