AITA Frien edition nr. 2? (2 Viewers)

[seungfloral]

I have this friend that i talk to often. I try to advise them as well as i can, they have issues with confidence and so do i... I write to her mainly, i'm not a therapist so i can give as much advise as i can do, but.... the thing is i don't wanna talk on voice with them. I don't mind small voice messages but i don't wanna talk for an hour or so on voice chat, it feels awkward to me. I'd rather do smth else, but i also don't wanna dissapoint my friend, so i just write back. Am i the asshole?

 

[Day]

NTA - I have this problem too. As awkward as it's going to feel, if you it's important to define and set that boundary in your conversation. So if they call you, mute yourself and write to them "I'm uncomfortable doing voice but I'm listening and I'll write back to you"

 

[Selfmate]

we each have an emotional bucket
every time we assist someone else or be the shoulder for others to cry on that bucket gets filed out and eventually if we don't empty that bucket ourselves it will overflow

 

[seungfloral]

NTA - I have this problem too. As awkward as it's going to feel, if you it's important to define and set that boundary in your conversation. So if they call you, mute yourself and write to them "I'm uncomfortable doing voice but I'm listening and I'll write back to you"

Yeah ... I will try that

we each have an emotional bucket
every time we assist someone else or be the shoulder for others to cry on that bucket gets filed out and eventually if we don't empty that bucket ourselves it will overflow

Yeah.... Kinda advice i really need

 

[dark_tranquility]

Talking on voice chat is overrated,
I hate the sound of my voice..
So I never do it

 

[seungfloral]

Talking on voice chat is overrated,
I hate the sound of my voice..
So I never do it

I hate mine too...