Sensitive Is it bad if.... (1 Viewer)

[ADORA]

I don't think I ever cried for someone who died in my family, just a feeling of nothingness or smth like that, very bizarre

Well i figured out why i dont really like emotions and its something called emotional detachment

 

[ADORA]

If you’re not very close with any of your family members, then I don’t see why that should be a bad thing at all to not feel sad about it.
Honestly, I feel you with that though - like my grandfather died 2 years ago but I didn’t feel sad about it since I wasn’t very close with him.
Well not that I’m actually close with a lot of my family members anyway, but yeah you get the point.

Now that i actually thought about who im close with i cant think of anybody like not even my mom i get uncomfortable when anybody shows love towards me its weird idk

 

[lily]

It depends on how close you are with the person. For me if it's a distance relative I never saw in person, I won't feel sad

 

[ADORA]

It depends on how close you are with the person. For me if it's a distance relative I never saw in person, I won't feel sad

Well thats just it i dont feel close with anybody

 

[Selfmate]

it depends on how well you knew the person and how close one was

 

[Deleted member 74]

it depends on the person, context and how close you were or felt with them, I don't think it's a bad thing as death is only a natural part of life, I've had many extended family members pass this year and I didn't feel anything, but the neighbour/family friend who spent time with and took care of me when I was little and unfortunately passed is someone I still think about everyday, everyone processes things differently

 

[Winnaaaa]

I think it depends on how emotionally attached you are to the person.

 

[ADORA]

I think it depends on how emotionally attached you are to the person.

I can't be emotionally attached anymore its too hard