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[Violanah]

I often daydream about being someone else, looking different and living a different life.

 

[MK3AM]

I often daydream about being someone else, looking different and living a different life.

same with me

 

[athenaaa]

what u want ppl to know abt u that u don't really share

Spoiler: sLeEpY hEaDs

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I’m not as carefree as I appear. I’m actually super stressed all the time but never talk about it because my stresses are “not significant”

 

[Yelena_Belova]

I don't cry for no reason, it's just for reasons that I don't want to tell people about because they'd think it's stupid.

Nooooooooo, don't think like that. If they think that and say it, hit them. Okay, maybe not actually, but at least consider it.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

I often daydream about being someone else, looking different and living a different life.

Go get your dreams, you got this!

 

[Villains]

i actually hate being aroace so much

 

[Yelena_Belova]

I’m not as carefree as I appear. I’m actually super stressed all the time but never talk about it because my stresses are “not significant”

If they're bothering you, then they're significant, even if they seem small to you. End of story. You can always talk about it to me, and I'm pretty sure Vikki too if you want to. We'd both be down to listen and understanding about it.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

i actually hate being aroace so much

I hope you're able to love that part of yourself one day. I used to dislike being Ace and wish that I wasn't, but once I accepted myself, it felt amazing. If you want to talk about it, I think I might understand since I'm Ace and while I'm not Aro myself, I have friends who are on that spectrum IRL.

 

[Villains]

I hope you're able to love that part of yourself one day. I used to dislike being Ace and wish that I wasn't, but once I accepted myself, it felt amazing. If you want to talk about it, I think I might understand since I'm Ace and while I'm not Aro myself, I have friends who are on that spectrum IRL.

i’m fine with being ace i just hate being aro.

because i want to experience love but its so difficult for me. i’ve never had a crush on someone before in my whole life but recently i started kinda liking this guy but had to forget about him cause he’s straight :/
it’s just hard to distinguish what i feel and when i do feel romantic attraction it ends up not working out

 

[athenaaa]

If they're bothering you, then they're significant, even if they seem small to you. End of story. You can always talk about it to me, and I'm pretty sure Vikki too if you want to. We'd both be down to listen and understanding about it.

I appreciate it It’s mostly just school and work and just life in general but I shall be okay soon

 

[Yelena_Belova]

I appreciate it It’s mostly just school and work and just life in general but I shall be okay soon

Yay!

 

[Yelena_Belova]

i’m fine with being ace i just hate being aro.

because i want to experience love but its so difficult for me. i’ve never had a crush on someone before in my whole life but recently i started kinda liking this guy but had to forget about him cause he’s straight :/
it’s just hard to distinguish what i feel and when i do feel romantic attraction it ends up not working out

I know that feeling of forcing feeling all too well, and making yourself get over someone because you know they don't like you back in that way, yet you want to stay friends with them. I hope you get another crush when you ready, and that they'll like you back. Some days I don't think I'll find the right one and it's hard not to give up hope, but I know I want it and so I can't give up. Even as a non-aro person, I still have trouble differentiating between a close friend and a crush. I'm sure it's different for you, but I do get why it's confusing.

 

[Villains]

I know that feeling of forcing feeling all too well, and making yourself get over someone because you know they don't like you back in that way, yet you want to stay friends with them. I hope you get another crush when you ready, and that they'll like you back. Some days I don't think I'll find the right one and it's hard not to give up hope, but I know I want it and so I can't give up. Even as a non-aro person, I still have trouble differentiating between a close friend and a crush. I'm sure it's different for you, but I do get why it's confusing.

thank you <3 i appreciate your words
i hope we both find what we want someday

 

[RainbowMoon]

Nooooooooo, don't think like that. If they think that and say it, hit them. Okay, maybe not actually, but at least consider it.

Haha great advice
This was my parents and brother because I would cry so much for seemingly no reason that they would just be annoyed, and my younger brother would make fun of me. It made me embarrassed and not want to express my feelings to them because after a while, they would say "stop crying, you're almost an adult." But it was probably a problem because people would yell at me and I would break down crying.

I don't cry near as much though since I'm a little older but it still hurts when I'm hurting and it's just an "annoyance" to others. I know they care and I love them but still.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

thank you <3 i appreciate your words
i hope we both find what we want someday

I appreciate yours too, and I hope we both do too.

 

[Yelena_Belova]

Haha great advice
This was my parents and brother because I would cry so much for seemingly no reason that they would just be annoyed, and my younger brother would make fun of me. It made me embarrassed and not want to express my feelings to them because after a while, they would say "stop crying, you're almost an adult." But it was probably a problem because people would yell at me and I would break down crying.

I don't cry near as much though since I'm a little older but it still hurts when I'm hurting and it's just an "annoyance" to others. I know they care and I love them but still.

If you're up to it, I'd have a conversation with your family about it. Why do they find it annoying? Why do they think that adults either don't cry as much, or shouldn't? I'm an adult and I cry a decent amount and I turned out fine. Assuming that they're reasonable, talk about the effect that their words have and how you feel about it, emphasizing that you do love them, but find it hurtful. You can also easily find research to back yourself up. Bottling up emotions isn't healthy and most people acknowledge that, so there's probably some studies proving that. Or if there's any health health benefits to a MILD amount of crying.

Also, I don't know if this helps or not, and I forget who it was from, but I heard this quote online a while back and loved it and still remember it by heart: Crying doesn't mean you are weak, it means you have been strong for too long.

 

[Violanah]

Go get your dreams, you got this!

Aww you’re too kind. Thank you!

 

[Jungwonie]

it doesn't mean that I'm nice that people can ask me all kinds of favors
it's really hard for me to say no sometimes

 

[Yelena_Belova]

it doesn't mean that I'm nice that people can ask me all kinds of favors
it's really hard for me to say no sometimes

I was once the same way. It's okay to have boundaries and say no. If people don't respect that, they're not a good person.

 

[Jungwonie]

I was once the same way. It's okay to have boundaries and say no. If people don't respect that, they're not a good person.

thanks Channie! I just can't help, but feel that their feelings might get hurt because of me or something