Im done with kpopsource(note: Anixety and depression) (1 Viewer)

[Pirioca]

You have to understand no one is responsible to make you happy or to keep you happy. You need to do that on your own. Perhaps this place is a trigger for you because you see so many people interacting and you crave it as well. However as I pointed out before no one is obliged to do that.

You want to make friends here, sure okay? Comment on people threads, join event games, do something that makes them want to talk to you.
But
As of right now, you are so negative, it only repelling people. And if Im being honest you need to love yourself first before people can love you. You need to speak to a professional in order to keep your emotions and yourself in check. And if it’s better to avoid places that trigger these emotions, this place for example, take a break from KPS.

but please please talk to a professional about these negative and emotions thoughts. It is not healthy.

Amazing comment!

 

[Villains]

dawg you are 24

 

[_Sammy_]

Yes I am

 

[_Sammy_]

Why you ask me that

 

[MK3AM]

I meant hate this site

It's a shame that you said that, but I respect your opinion, and I don't think anyone's intention was to be mean, but I'm sure they were concerned, and if someone says something that isn't right, tell them because we don't know the real you. And if you don't want to see a person, if you go on their profile, there should be a button to ignore that person so you won't see them in threads.

 

[_Sammy_]

I did ignore him

 

[dark_tranquility]

I was the same once upon a time.
After much thought, I accepted people around me

We're nice and we don't bite.
pls give us a chance

 

[Belgizen]

I don't know you and I don't think we've really interacted before.
It's sad that you hate this forum. Like other users already said, this is a very positive kpop forum, if not the most positive out there.

I see that you are having dark thoughts and that you have had them for quite a while. Are you okay?
I get it. I have struggled in the past too with dark thoughts.
The only advice I can give you is to let a professional help you.

If you feel like this forum contributes to your dark thoughts, I can only suggest you leave this place for a while.
It would be sad to see you go, but if it helps you, it is for the better.
I this forum left 3 years ago when I was having bad thoughts, even though the users have been nice to me. I noticed that kpop was a big contributor for the decline in my mental health.
Most of the users that I knew have left, and many new people joined, but they've still welcomed me back with open arms.

Some of your replies kind of concern me.
I really hope that you take my advice by heart.

 

[_Sammy_]

Please let me think

 

[_Sammy_]

Wow you are laughing at me

 

[MK3AM]

Wow you are laughing at me

No one is laughing at you or your problems dear. We are all here for you.

 

[_Sammy_]

Yes... *pouts*

 

[_Sammy_]

You care about me

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I don't think I've ever interacted with you but you seem very toxic.

Like the friend who can never ever see the bright side of a situation and can't be happy for others and can't even be there for people when they are having a hard time because it has to be about you. About how awful your life is, how hard your life is and so on and so forth.

Life is hard. It always WILL be hard but there is always a bright side and coming to this wonderful forum to constantly cry and complain about it and it's users who are beyond lovely is ridiculous and just trying to bait and get attention.

As @StirFriedPanda stated this forum is very peaceful and alot of us rejoice in each other's triumphs and support each other during our hard times. BUT we give back to each other and don't constantly take and that makes this forum a lovely place.

When you come to a place like this to stir crap up and constantly be negative and take advantage of nice sympathetic people-the forum is not the problem, you are. Go get some help and stop seeking validation and help from this forum if you are just going to constantly be angry and upset about everything and not ever be happy with things. If you are miserable here-leave, and stop posting about it.

 

[_Sammy_]

He is hurt my feeling
I quit
Bye Come back KPS

Go ahead you hate me and dont like me😑

 

[ellenote]

Honestly I'm getting tired of forums too. I'm barely online these days.

 

[_Sammy_]

Wow!

 

[_Sammy_]

I ignore you

 

[_Sammy_]

Why you guys talk my threads

 

[BlingyBlinger]

What all have I missed on my hiatus?