*sigh* im so done (1 Viewer)

[anemoia]

well a few weeks back i posted a thread abt confronting my friend and (background context A causing us problems, my 3 oth friends feel the same way) we finally did it today but A was just blaming us abt drifting away from her and basically said we wernt putting in effort to make this work and that she was the only one holding the friend grp all together... but the thing is last year we put in so much effort to be her friend (even tho she treated us like shit) but this year we were all so emotionally exhausted but fortunately managed to find new friends who actually understood us and validated our feelings... and the second we start to feel more light hearted and happier A complains that we are leaving her out and being bad friends... we tried to reason with her but she kept defending herself and blaming us.... im so tired of this i just want to drop her alr...

 

[ani07]

I hate it when ppl victimize themselves. just drop her

 

[Selfmate]

so I take it now you are no longer friends?

 

[anemoia]

so I take it now you are no longer friends?

uhhh she kinda pretended the confrontation never happened so shes still like talking to me and stuff so ig we're still friends...?

 

[dark_tranquility]

well a few weeks back i posted a thread abt confronting my friend and (background context A causing us problems, my 3 oth friends feel the same way) we finally did it today but A was just blaming us abt drifting away from her and basically said we wernt putting in effort to make this work and that she was the only one holding the friend grp all together... but the thing is last year we put in so much effort to be her friend (even tho she treated us like shit) but this year we were all so emotionally exhausted but fortunately managed to find new friends who actually understood us and validated our feelings... and the second we start to feel more light hearted and happier A complains that we are leaving her out and being bad friends... we tried to reason with her but she kept defending herself and blaming us.... im so tired of this i just want to drop her alr...

when in doubt kick them out,

 

[Selfmate]

uhhh she kinda pretended the confrontation never happened so shes still like talking to me and stuff so ig we're still friends...?

maybe you need to sit her down and go through some boundaries with her... lol

 

[anemoia]

maybe you need to sit her down and go through some boundaries with her... lol

yeah...