I've fallen into darkness again (1 Viewer)

[DaisySkies]

My life is a mess

 

[athenaaa]

Same. But did you wanna talk about it hun?

 

[DaisySkies]

Same. But did you wanna talk about it hun?

I can...It's difficult to explain...

 

[athenaaa]

I can...It's difficult to explain...

If you don’t think you can explain, it’s okay. Just know that you’re not alone 💜

 

[DaisySkies]

If you don’t think you can explain, it’s okay. Just know that you’re not alone 💜

Thanks...I have to sleep now...I'm sorry I bothered you...

 

[athenaaa]

Thanks...I have to sleep now...I'm sorry I bothered you...

You didn’t bother me. I hope you sleep well though

 

[DaisySkies]

You didn’t bother me. I hope you sleep well though

Thanks ❤‍🩹

 

[izcream]

are you okay?

 

[DaisySkies]

No...

 

[Pirioca]

My life is a mess

Everyone's life is a mess sometimes. I think it's part of the plan that we need to clean up a mess here and there.

 

[DaisySkies]

Everyone's life is a mess sometimes. I think it's part of the plan that we need to clean up a mess here and there.

but i don't see any way that my life could change for the better...i'm stuck like this...

 

[Pirioca]

but i don't see any way that my life could change for the better...i'm stuck like this...

Then change direction and do something completely different (or do some things different). I don't know where exactly your problem is (a keyword would be helpful), but a change of direction isn't the worst idea if you stuck somewhere in your life.

If you are as old as me and think your life will not change anymore, you might have a problem. But in your age you should see every problem as an opportunity to develop further.

 

[DaisySkies]

Then change direction and do something completely different (or do some things different). I don't know where exactly your problem is (a keyword would be helpful), but a change of direction isn't the worst idea if you stuck somewhere in your life.

If you are as old as me and think your life will not change anymore, you might have a problem. But in your age you should see every problem as an opportunity to develop further.

i just feel like my friends don't want me around anymore....they keep bringing other people around and they say that they need me and that i'm one of the most important things in their lives...but i don't know if they're lying or not....
i feel like everything i do is a failure....i keep falling behind in school....my grades are falling and i have no motivation at all to get them back up...

 

[Pirioca]

i just feel like my friends don't want me around anymore....they keep bringing other people around and they say that they need me and that i'm one of the most important things in their lives...but i don't know if they're lying or not....

There are 'friends' that are only your friends as long as you share their interests. Do your thing and you'll see if they are still interested in you and the things you do. There might be also phases where you and your friends seem to be closer or more distant. That's pretty normal. Other people might be more interesting for some reason atm, but that doesn't mean that your friends don't like you. First and foremost you should ask yourself about your feelings when you hang out with them. Does it still feel good? Then everything's fine. But you could strike up new friendships too (of course without ignoring your current friends).

i feel like everything i do is a failure....i keep falling behind in school....my grades are falling and i have no motivation at all to get them back up...

See, that's the problem. You feel like everything you do is failure. And the feeling demotivates you, so things don't get better. And because things don't get better, you feel even worse. It's a downward spiral and you should interrupt it. Did you ever talk about your problems with a school psychologist? I don't think you need serious help, but I'm sure you're not the only one with such problems and a professional has some life experience in helping people.