Do you have that one relative? (2 Viewers)

[Ahsoka]

The one who tells you how to live your life but seems to be very poor at doing so themselves?

My grandma always tells me about how I need to keep relationships with people, especially family. She’s estranged from all 5 of her siblings and so many ex friends. It feels like half the time I call her she has a story I haven’t heard of about how an ex friend turns out to be terrible and how she stood up for herself and cut them off. I feel like I’ve heard a variation of these stories over a dozen time, each with a new person So yeah I’m sure she’s really properly educated on whether I should keep contact with family and friends.

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Relatives don't usually talk to me.

 

[Ahsoka]

Relatives don't usually talk to me.

I’d be okay with her not talking to me.

 

[Selfmate]

so your grandma is giving you advice on what not to do lol

 

[dark_tranquility]

My fathers cousin

she is a know it all and a bitch
Never liked her to begin with

 

[Ahsoka]

so your grandma is giving you advice on what not to do lol

She unintentionally does that already. So much of what she says or does makes me go

 

[Selfmate]

She unintentionally does that already. So much of what she says or does makes me go

smart!!!
do the opposite of what grandma says...such a cryptic grandma

 

[Ahsoka]

smart!!!
do the opposite of what grandma says...such a cryptic grandma

Grandma says being gay is bad? I’ll become more gay

 

[Selfmate]

Grandma says being gay is bad? I’ll become more gay

hmmm...how does one become more gay? lol

 

[Ahsoka]

hmmm...how does one become more gay? lol

By being more like me

 

[Flaneur]

Yes yes my grandmom is always trying to get me to live the way she wants me to

First she has a mindset of idk the 80s like she thinks that rather than being all about "academics" or "sports" I should be taking cooking classes since it is way to become "a good housewife"
Cause' according to her that's what women do stay at home (in the kitchen) while their husbands work hard

My parents, me and my brother have told her off many times but she still doesn't listen

 

[Deleted member 74]

this is my dad like sorry dude I'm going to have to pass on your advice, plus he doesn't know me well so it doesn't fit either way x.x all I can say is take your own "advice" and instead of criticising me and the way I live my life look inward

 

[Selfmate]

By being more like me

[breaking news - scientists have discovered that injuring one's CL in fact turns one gay. Study further finds that injuring more than one CL turns one even more gay]

 

[badcrookshanks]

girl just one?

 

[athenaaa]

Yes and I am sure you can guess who

 

[Ahsoka]

Yes yes my grandmom is always trying to get me to live the way she wants me to

First she has a mindset of idk the 80s like she thinks that rather than being all about "academics" or "sports" I should be taking cooking classes since it is way to become "a good housewife"
Cause' according to her that's what women do stay at home (in the kitchen) while their husbands work hard

My parents, me and my brother have told her off many times but she still doesn't listen

At least your parents and brother are on your side here, one thing I find frustrating with my grandma is that my dad defends what she says, no matter if it’s racist, sexist, ect.

 

[Ahsoka]

girl just one?

I don’t have that many relatives that I talk to so for me even one is a lot

 

[Flaneur]

You want me to come over and put some sense into your grandma and dad

At least your parents and brother are on your side here, one thing I find frustrating with my grandma is that my dad defends what she says, no matter if it’s racist, sexist, ect.

 

[Ahsoka]

You want me to come over and put some sense into your grandma and dad

Unfortunately I fear it’s too late When you reach the point that you say heterosexuals are discriminated against more than LGBT people you’ve really gone off the deep end

 

[Flaneur]

Unfortunately I fear it’s too late When you reach the point that you say heterosexuals are discriminated against more than LGBT people you’ve really gone off the deep end

Oh lord that bad huh ? I don't get why people are so against the of LGBT it's fine everyone can love whoever they want