Do you seek superiority or connection? (1 Viewer)

[athenaaa]

I seek connections with others. I don’t believe that I am better than anyone and that everyone has potential and something to contribute​

 

[pinkmelodies]

I thrive off of connecting with people. Especially we are similar in personalities and enjoy the same interests. Even if we don't, as long as I feel comfortable with someone that's a connection

 

[Chiara]

connection. it's never good to have a superiority complex. makes you look egotistical.

 

[Selfmate]

what do you mean in seeking superiority vs connection?
like for friendships or?

 

[athenaaa]

what do you mean in seeking superiority vs connection?
like for friendships or?

Yeah or workplace connections

 

[Selfmate]

Yeah or workplace connections

well for friendship connections

for workplace depends some are merely business and work relationships
I never seek superiority even though it may end up that way (because of hierarchy and shit like that)

 

[Ahsoka]

Connection but I can be a bit insecure when I perceive myself as being worse at something than others, mostly when I’m the worst rather than second best or whatever. But I am trying to get myself out of that kind of thinking.

 

[athenaaa]

Connection but I can be a bit insecure when I perceive myself as being worse at something than others, mostly when I’m the worst rather than second best or whatever. But I am trying to get myself out of that kind of thinking.

I completely understand this feeling. I do want to remind you though that you are trying your best and its the effort that counts most. I believe in you

 

[HelloGoodbyeDie]

I seek connection but usually the cords and up snapping
Which is why I usually give up on it now

just left to my own devices

if people come that's fine
but I do not chase after it

 

[StirFriedPanda]

Neither, connections are good. And reality is there are TONS of people I am better than. I've just learned to keep it to myself. I like it here because you guys are all better than me and know it. That way when I cause chaos it's acceptable. It's how I got my Panda Pass.

 

[Tickita]

Connection

 

[SnowWhite]

At work? Definitely superiority. I study in medical school and you would be shocked about the number of people having the same mentality as mine.

I even had read before that a lot of school bullies pursue medicine as a major because they like the idea of having complete control over people, but im not that petty. I wasnt a bully either, so i will take this with a grain of salt.

 

[uran]

work - superiority, not to make myself on pedestal type of superiority but the kind where people will carefully listen to me and really take into account what im saying
daily life - connection because even if im sexy, perfect and fabulous in everyway i see every human to have the same value

 

[Willow]

Connections