I'm real tired of being asked about marriage???!!!! (1 Viewer)

[seungfloral]

It's not even from elder ppl, but from my friend who is married. I'm happy for you, but can u pls not ask ? I don't wanna run to the altar!!!! I don't care about kids. But i can't say that cause i seem selfish...

 

[Harmony_Starz]

thats awful,: why do people always ask others this?

 

[Ahsoka]

People who ask dumb questions like this are so annoying

 

[Belgizen]

People don't even ask me anymore because they realize i'm a hopeless case
yay me

I don't wanna run to the altar!!!! I don't care about kids. But i can't say that cause i seem selfish...

Fuck yes you can say that.
You can be selfish how much you like. We're with too many people on this planet anyway and kids are hella expensive
I don't want kids either at this point in my life and people know that.

 

[seungfloral]

People don't even ask me anymore because they realize i'm a hopeless case
yay me


Fuck yes you can say that.
You can be selfish how much you like. We're with too many people on this planet anyway and kids are hella expensive
I don't want kids either at this point in my life and people know that.

For real i dont have patience for them. They can be a joy, but fuck i'm not suitable. I can't go for a drive without anxiety , how can i handle a LIVING HUMAN

 

[seungfloral]

People who ask dumb questions like this are so annoying

I know, LIKE UGHHHH
We've been through this for years, i'm noooot gonna change overnight

 

[seungfloral]

thats awful,: why do people always ask others this?

Bored of their own lives i presume. I mean i do ask it sometimes too, if i meet someone i haven't seen in years. But other than that...

 

[Belgizen]

For real i dont have patience for them. They can be a joy, but fuck i'm not suitable. I can't go for a drive without anxiety , how can i handle a LIVING HUMAN

I can get really annoyed by most of todays kids. Most of them don't have any discipline and are very loud and annoying and don't know boundaries. Doesn't mean I hate kids tho. My coworker has a daughter (currently 3, but have known the girl since before she was 2). That child is so well behaved.
At this point in my life I don't wanna have kids but if i have a partner, i might look to it differently.
But as a single person, I don't think i am able to handle a kid

 

[dark_tranquility]

My mum asks me this all the time.

I just say WIP lol

you have the right to say no
people who keep nagging are a bore
be yourself and that's all that matters

 

[SnowWhite]

I am born in a conservative country so my aunts started asking me abt marriage when i took a freaking gap year. Am i supposed to be doing smth all the time? I left the country anyway so now they are relieved im doing something and dont have access to me.

 

[Boyo]

It's not even from elder ppl, but from my friend who is married. I'm happy for you, but can u pls not ask ? I don't wanna run to the altar!!!! I don't care about kids. But i can't say that cause i seem selfish...

I say that and I honestly don't care what people think. It's my life, not theirs.
Also, as years pass by less and less asks this.

 

[Selfmate]

so my friend when are you going to

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go for the nxde aesthetic?

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huh - you thought I was going to say the M word right? lol

 

[Ahsoka]

I know, LIKE UGHHHH
We've been through this for years, i'm noooot gonna change overnight

Bonus points when they say “Hahaha, you’ll change your mind, I just know”.

 

[ani07]

its not selfish, just a different way of thinking.
I recently saw a talk about the topic if getting children is selfish and most ppl said 'yes'.

 

[MK3AM]

why does it matter marriage isn't for everyone and you'll do stuff at your own time

 

[snsd2beg]

That stuff is so annoying.
You're allowed to be "selfish". It's YOUR life. As if WANTING to have children isn't also selfish...
I'm kind of glad my family gave up on me lol

 

[seungfloral]

Bonus points when they say “Hahaha, you’ll change your mind, I just know”.

Hahahhaaha , IM ALMOST 30 WHEN WILL I CHANGE IT

 

[seungfloral]

I can get really annoyed by most of todays kids. Most of them don't have any discipline and are very loud and annoying and don't know boundaries. Doesn't mean I hate kids tho. My coworker has a daughter (currently 3, but have known the girl since before she was 2). That child is so well behaved.
At this point in my life I don't wanna have kids but if i have a partner, i might look to it differently.
But as a single person, I don't think i am able to handle a kid

Yeah some kids are angels, but i just don't think i could be a good parent. My mom is actually resigned to the idea

 

[seungfloral]

My mum asks me this all the time.

I just say WIP lol

you have the right to say no
people who keep nagging are a bore
be yourself and that's all that matters

For real, hope ur mom understands u too

 

[dark_tranquility]

For real, hope ur mom understands u too

Kind of

she is a mixed bag