Fat Girls & Crop Tops (1 Viewer)

[melancholia]

You look amazing! The crop top looks great on you, and love yourself! you are wonderful <3

 

[Faerie]

I love you too

 

[Faerie]

Well its nice that you're building it up, I wish you luck ^^

Spoiler

I've tried for a good 15 years, it not really because of anyone else for me, its just a warped perception i have about myself, i've never been affected by other peoples opinions at all, just my own really. its just a mental stop gap and part of my conflicting personality tbh, but i'm fine with it. Plus i'm looking forward to being old on the outside to match the inside and i'm 30 so i can't be bothered to fix something i know i will never be happy with cause its not important to me.

Girl you’re still young to do something , don’t give up yet . This lady came by my store the other day . She looked about her late 40s , she was greeted by my coworker ( who transferred to another store for two years before coming back) anyways my co worker was in shock to see her . Turns out this lady was 240 2 years back and dropped her weight to 170. Yeah I couldn’t believe it either , but omg she looked so happy talking about her weight loss . But damn she did it

 

[Wicked]

It looks super cute on you!

You go, girl.

 

[Ems]

A great part of confidence is how your body feels. No girl feels good when they're bloated. Good news gorlies, water is the best method when you're bloated!

 

[Mew]

Girl you’re still young to do something , don’t give up yet . This lady came by my store the other day . She looked about her late 40s , she was greeted by my coworker ( who transferred to another store for two years before coming back) anyways my co worker was in shock to see her . Turns out this lady was 240 2 years back and dropped her weight to 170. Yeah I couldn’t believe it either , but omg she looked so happy talking about her weight loss . But damn she did it

Nah i'm fine with it xD

Spoiler: I'm a complex being xD

It's a mental issue more than anything that would require therapy, as there's technically objectively nothing wrong with me, but my mind disagrees, its a harder issue to fix as there's no real direct cause to why i think the way i do and how i see myself physically, i've been thinner i've been thicker makes no real difference. hence i don't bother with it, just seems time consuming when it wouldn't make me happy on a deeper level as i don't care about appearance generally which is why its tedious and annoying that i have such a warped perception of myself physically when it doesn't even matter to me, its and fickle and extremely irritational thought process. Its difficult to explain so i don't do so, its just weird part of my personality i've come to accept tbh, my confidence is more within who i am as a person rather than what i look like which seems to hold well with me and its also the reason i've never cared about how people see me positively or negatively as what they say has no affect at all... its all strange i know.

 

[Administrator2]

You need to do and dress what YOU like, girl, not what others like.

You are amazing.

 

[Tickita]

Cute!