Being queer with a homophobic family hurts. Though I know others out there have it worse, maybe the same level as me.
I pray / hope that anyone who is closeted or anyone who is out, ( no matter if it was your choice or someone outted you wrongfully -- which is never okay ), finds their " fam" ( like a chosen family or just a group of people who love u for u ) and safety, because queer people are still people and adding the label " queer" won't change the fact that we deserve love and respect. Being queer isn't a choice and it isn't " contagious", even if you realize in the near future that you like girls but maybe when you were nine you didn't, you are building blocks ( like Legos ) to know Moe about yourself. Wether you are Cis, Straight, Gay, Pan, Allo, Trans or whatever you identify as, you still deserve a place for family and love and welcoming
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Don't worry, everything will be okay sooner or later, just wait and you'll see
