Sensitive I'm so done (1 Viewer)

[karenina]

I just got flashbacks to middle school when I was bullied really badly when today during lunch, a girl came up to me (she's a grade below me) and asked if she wanted to be my friend and it just seemed very inauthentic. bascially she just asked me about memes and watching TikTok together and spiderman and joked we could be best friends. and she tried to get all of her friends to sit with me too. im honestly so tired and i really wanna off myself cause im tired of this bullying and kids making fun of me

 

[karenina]

and i asked people who know her and they said she prolly was joking

 

[karenina]

and what i hate the most is the reason why i get/got bullied is because of my apperance, and not because of presentation but because my face is ugly as fuck

 

[dark_tranquility]

I was bullied as well

mostly due to my complexion and being so quiet and not conversing much
bullies will seek out inconsistencies about someone and drain it
you have friends here.

 

[athenaaa]

I was also bullied relentlessly from elementary school to high school. I understand the feeling… if you ever need anyone to talk to, I am around to listen

 

[QuallitlliQualio]

I just got flashbacks to middle school when I was bullied really badly when today during lunch, a girl came up to me (she's a grade below me) and asked if she wanted to be my friend and it just seemed very inauthentic. bascially she just asked me about memes and watching TikTok together and spiderman and joked we could be best friends. and she tried to get all of her friends to sit with me too. im honestly so tired and i really wanna off myself cause im tired of this bullying and kids making fun of me

and i asked people who know her and they said she prolly was joking

and what i hate the most is the reason why i get/got bullied is because of my apperance, and not because of presentation but because my face is ugly as fuck

You're the prettiest person I know.. .. because even when I had nothing - you were there for me .. ..

You said I was cool - when no one even acknowledged my existence .. .. even if your bullies looked as perfect as Jimin - or as pretty as LISA - they still wouldn't compare to ya .. ..

As your soul extraordinarily eclipses all of thier superficial attractivenesses' - COMBINED ! ! ! !

I'm pretty sure that prettier than 'em as well ! ! ! !

And that they're envious of ya ! ! ! !

 

[Pirioca]

- Bullies wait for a sad or angry reaction. Let them wait.



- Use the buddy system. A bully rarely attacks a group. Make friends with other bullied people in your class and school.

- Change your body language.

and what i hate the most is the reason why i get/got bullied is because of my apperance, and not because of presentation but because my face is ugly as fuck

You radiate what you think about yourself.

 

[centen]

it's hard when people are cruel. I hope you can be kind to yourself, because you're my friend and I don't like anyone saying mean things about my friends!! You deserve better.

 

[Deleted member 74]

you wouldn't want to be friends with trash people that see no problem in bullying anyway
I've been through it and trust me, you're above them. people put others down because they are deeply insecure and clearly not happy in their own lives, otherwise they would not be so miserable to mock and bully others, and spread lack of kindness around. pity them because it is truly a sad life they are living, to make jokes like that that ruin someone's day. also don't call yourself ugly. bullies see your lack of self-esteem from a mile away. even if you don't like the way you look, learn to accept it and say positive affirmations to yourself. I know it's easier said than done because I was there too once, being bullied during many years of school, but it's something you need to learn to do because if people aren't on your side, you need to be on your own side.
stay strong, this won't last forever

 

[Pirioca]

stay strong, this won't last forever

It ends when victims stop being victims.

also don't call yourself ugly. bullies see your lack of self-esteem from a mile away. even if you don't like the way you look, learn to accept it and say positive affirmations to yourself.

This! There are no ugly people but there is wrong self-perception.

 

[Drug]

I was also bullied while in HS and elementary school. I know how it feels but I want you to keep fighting, it can be hard but don't let them dictate your life.
You are not ugly. The only people that are ugly are the one bullying others since they are rotten inside.

We are all there for you OP

 

[Ahsoka]

I’ve also been bullied before, and while I don’t really have any good advice necessarily I just wanted to say that I hope that things turn out okay in the end. I totally understand that it’s not easy because of how it affected me, but I hope one day you’ll find your group of people that treat you right.