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I feel like all the friends I once had on these forums are lost. I used to be close with so many people back on AKP and then when I came here its like everyone I was once close with is just gone,,,or we just never talk anymore. Idk. It seems weird to me whenever I post because it feels like I only have 1 or 2 people I'm close with even after being on here for so long. Everyone here already has their friends, so why would they need me, right?

Am I the only one who feels like this,,,? It appears to be that I am.
 
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yeah i feel like that sometimes rip

discord helps
Yeah, I know it does. Its just I'm not as outgoing as I once was, so I barely talk on the servers I'm apart of with people from here.
 

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i have never had much luck finding friends on these kpop forums

im too shy to keep conversation lmao so dont worry you are not alone
Aw, I understand :') I'm the same way, I always get shy when I talk to people separately from the main forums. And when I do, I just feel really boring, oof.
 
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Aw, I understand :') I'm the same way, I always get shy when I talk to people separately from the main forums. And when I do, I just feel really boring, oof.
yep same like i just almost didnt reply for this but that is too sad and ironic and this cycle needs to end

we can be boring and awkward together :pepeheart:
 

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on akp i know no one anymore except like 5 ppl
I could probably say the same now tbh oof. I used to know a ton of people on AKP but after everyone switched here I only know like 5 people who are active there.

We have discords?
Well, I don't normally talk to many people on Discord though. I really should try to :pepeslippy:
 
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yep same like i just almost didnt reply for this but that is too sad and ironic and this cycle needs to end

we can be boring and awkward together :pepeheart:
Waaa sounds good :nekolove:

nouu haha, thanks cutie, we should talk more <3 :nekoshy:
We really should!! <333
 

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I failed to make any friends on akp. I think it was my lack of social skills and the fact that I spent a lot of time lurking around. I made like 2 friends before I left for kps.

But, I've made quite a lot of friends on kps. I've been more open and it really feels like I'm part of the community so I'm happy here. I guess the environment of this forum is something that made me be more open as well.
 

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I failed to make any friends on akp. I think it was my lack of social skills and the fact that I spent a lot of time lurking around. I made like 2 friends before I left for kps.

But, I've made quite a lot of friends on kps. I've been more open and it really feels like I'm part of the community so I'm happy here. I guess the environment of this forum is something that made me be more open as well.
Somehow for me, I was like the opposite. I posted threads and tried to talk to a lot of people on AKP, and surprisingly made more friends there. When I came here though I waited too long to try and make new friends, and by the time I wanted to, it seemed as if everyone already had their close knit friends so I just gave up :/// idk, it is weird. It is waaay nicer and open people here but for some reason it makes me almost more scared? Maybe it is just me who has changed in the past year though that made me more shy, idk.
 
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Somehow for me, I was like the opposite. I posted threads and tried to talk to a lot of people on AKP, and surprisingly made more friends there. When I came here though I waited too long to try and make new friends, and by the time I wanted to, it seemed as if everyone already had their close knit friends so I just gave up :/// idk, it is weird. It is waaay nicer and open people here but for some reason it makes me almost more scared? Maybe it is just me who has changed in the past year though that made me more shy, idk.
I think I've managed to make a few friends because I've changed my attitude as well. 2016- early 2017 potato wasn't exactly the best potato to be around and I was somewhat of a delulu fan. I think people change and it's not a bad thing to change. And I'm pretty sure you do have a lot of friends already and you're only going to make more <3 :nekolove:
 
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I think I've managed to make a few friends because I've changed my attitude as well. 2016- early 2017 potato wasn't exactly the best potato to be around and I was somewhat of a delulu fan. I think people change and it's not a bad thing to change. And I'm pretty sure you do have a lot of friends already and you're only going to make more <3 :nekolove:
Ya'know, you're right, change isn't always bad! And thank you, thats really kind of you to say :D <3
 
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UwU its okay....this can happen, I had so many friends back at akp as well.... I still go there sometimes but can't interact much because most of them aren't active anymore and some simply stopped talking.
While here at kps I know a lot of people as well(not as much as akp though) but I mostly interact on discord because again not everyone is that active on forums as compared to discord...

Also if you ever need, my discord is always open uwu
 
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UwU its okay....this can happen, I had so many friends back at akp as well.... I still go there sometimes but can't interact much because most of them aren't active anymore and some simply stopped talking.
While here at kps I know a lot of people as well(not as much as akp though) but I mostly interact on discord because again not everyone is that active on forums as compared to discord...

Also if you ever need, my discord is always open uwu
Yeah, that is true. It makes me sad tbh because I'm much more comfortable with the forums format just because I like being able to type more per message, ya'know? But I've basically accepted that if I really want more friends I need to talk to more people on Discord.

And thank you love <3
 
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Yeah, that is true. It makes me sad tbh because I'm much more comfortable with the forums format just because I like being able to type more per message, ya'know? But I've basically accepted that if I really want more friends I need to talk to more people on Discord.

And thank you love <3
Yeah forums are much comfortable honestly for me as well but it's just that way that can't be helped...

:bigcatlove: :nekoshy:
 
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