Sensitive Losing all of my friends (1 Viewer)

MK3AM · 20 May 2026

karenina said:
I used to have a best friend but after I moved, we slowly grew apart but we still talk sometimes. I have 2 "best friends" in this new school that I had joined last year, but they seem to hate me now. My first friend keeps asking me for money, she even asked this random guy to get food for her, but she did not have money so she asked me to bring her money but I didn't have any so I explained to her that I can't and now she is upset. My other friend keeps hanging out with other people and when I talk to her in person, she is always texting someone else. I am quite lonely and my grades are going down, but that is not off too much concern since it's mostly since teachers are a bit behind since I turned in some assignments late. I am just very lonely and my depression is worsening, not sure what to do.

Honestly, I've been in a situation similar to yours, and I'm here if you need to talk. I remember a teacher once told me that freshman year of high school we may have a lot of friends, but each year it will go down until you only have a couple, and that did happen with me. The people left cared about me, and the people that left were never really true friends. If you want to continue the friendships with both of them, then talk to friend one about boundaries and explain that your situation isn't good either, and with your other friend, pull her aside and ask her; talking about situations really does help, and also maybe start looking for new friends. You'll never really know where you may find them. I wish you all the best!

karenina · 20 May 2026

MK3AM said:
Honestly, I've been in a situation similar to yours, and I'm here if you need to talk. I remember a teacher once told me that freshman year of high school we may have a lot of friends, but each year it will go down until you only have a couple, and that did happen with me. The people left cared about me, and the people that left were never really true friends. If you want to continue the friendships with both of them, then talk to friend one about boundaries and explain that your situation isn't good either, and with your other friend, pull her aside and ask her; talking about situations really does help, and also maybe start looking for new friends. You'll never really know where you may find them. I wish you all the best!

Thank you :)

MK3AM · 20 May 2026

karenina said:
Thank you :)

yes friend im always here for u!!

karenina · 20 May 2026

MK3AM said:
yes friend im always here for u!!

Can I DM you to get your input on what happened?

ChiaraStar169 · 20 May 2026

I agree with BakkaeMotae. it's better to be alone than around toxic or ignorant friends. I'm sure you'll find somebody who will be your friend. If you're religious (kinda doubt you are, as I think I'm one of the only devout Christians on here), you can talk to God about it. Or if not, you can always come to us, especially me. I was an outsider in school as well, so we can defos chat about it in DMs.