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[Jim]

I feel pathetic for looking for help on a kpop forum but I have no idea what to do.

Yesterday my brother opened up to me, saying he has depression. I asked him if he could pinpoint what’s causing it and all but he can’t, it’s multiple things. I suck at feelings & have no idea what to do. I asked him if he ever considered telling an adult but he freaked out. It’s not my place to tell anybody so I most likely won’t. Worst part is, is that he said he’s thought about how the world would be better off without him. I’ve been avoiding him all day today since I get uncomfortable around people who open up. Plz halp

 

[DrowningFishy]

Sit him down and have a talk. Remind him how broken a world be without him. Play on the grief and how lost you'd be with him. Hold out your hand and urge him to seek help. I know in certain countries it's easier said then done. He has you to turn to, even if you are bad at emotions, even a shoulder to turn to when depression is at it's lowest. Shoot have him talk to the school councilor if you have one.

Most you can do is talk him back, and keep out that hand when he's ready to reach for it.

 

[gongchan]

Despite how you might feel uncomfortable, please don't ignore him. That could possibly make him feel even more unwanted and worried that you could maybe be judging him. I'd try and talk with him and tell him how you are always there for him and that a world without him would be significantly worse.

 

[kodoku]

I feel pathetic for looking for help on a kpop forum but I have no idea what to do.

Yesterday my brother opened up to me, saying he has depression. I asked him if he could pinpoint what’s causing it and all but he can’t, it’s multiple things. I suck at feelings & have no idea what to do. I asked him if he ever considered telling an adult but he freaked out. It’s not my place to tell anybody so I most likely won’t. Worst part is, is that he said he’s thought about how the world would be better off without him. I’ve been avoiding him all day today since I get uncomfortable around people who open up. Plz halp

no need to feel pathetic, we're here for you <3

as for your problem, please try not to avoid him. Hear him out and offer your support, it can save a ife. Maybe you can look up some numbers and places and get help together, I hope you both feel better soon

 

[potato]

I feel pathetic for looking for help on a kpop forum but I have no idea what to do.

Yesterday my brother opened up to me, saying he has depression. I asked him if he could pinpoint what’s causing it and all but he can’t, it’s multiple things. I suck at feelings & have no idea what to do. I asked him if he ever considered telling an adult but he freaked out. It’s not my place to tell anybody so I most likely won’t. Worst part is, is that he said he’s thought about how the world would be better off without him. I’ve been avoiding him all day today since I get uncomfortable around people who open up. Plz halp

It's okay to not know what to do in situation like this. You're human too so you can't always be there to support him and it must be hard for you to have such a huge weight on your shoulders too.

If he told you about such deep feelings, then it means that he really trusts you and he loves you. Always be there for him and support him when he needs someone to talk to. Be there to give him a hug when he needs one. Just listening and can do a lot for someone. Remind him how important he is and how he much he deserves to be on this planet.

If you think his feelings are really getting out of hand, I would probably talk to an adult no matter how much you don't want to do it. Depending on where you live and how old you are, you can go to your local GP and they are not allowed to tell your parents. I would look this up online and do some heavy research just in case. I wish you all the best and I hope you can both overcome these feelings soon. <3