[NB] Som Hyein Comes out. Less than stellar reaction follows (1 Viewer)

[VillageIdiot]

Former 'Idol School' trainee Som Hye In comes out on SNS



Article: 'Idol School' Som Hye In, "I'm in a same-sex relationship" coming out on SNS... happy photos

Source: E-Today via Nate

1. [+743, -23] She's a school bully

2. [+679, -44] What I'm curious about is why in lesbian relationships, one of them is always dressed like a man

3. [+585, -26] Ah, didn't ask and don't care ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

4. [+70, -18] Being gay is abnormal

5. [+53, -7] She's the kid who was dorming with everyone and left because she couldn't sleep

6. [+39, -10] Why is this something to be proud of?

7. [+33, -8] This country isn't Hollywood

8. [+31, -6] School bully + lesbian... the worst combination

9. [+25, -5] ...And?

10. [+19, -1] In lesbian relationships, one of them always has short hair and the other one is super feminine looking ㅋㅋㅋ

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Source: Naver

1. [+239, -5] It's not like she's a celebrity, why put her private life in the media?

2. [+171, -6] Bi or whatever aside, she's a school bully

3. [+30, -0] Don't care... don't even know who she is

4. [+24, -1] Who is she? And why is a non-celebrity's relationship in the news?

5. [+23, -4] So who is she?

6. [+14, -7] Lesbian and a school bully? ㅋㅋㅋㅋ Gross, I hope she goes to hell

 

[yeji]

so much going on rn . really don't know what to think

 

[Yoohyeon]

It's hard when your past eventually comes back to haunt you. Whether her bullying accusations are true or not, people will believe what they want to believe.
I do think she bullied her victim, however, I think if she is sincerely sorry, and has apologized to the victim to try and make things bearable for her, then I would say to not forget but move on.
What I hate though is people are combining it with her sexuality and saying that she is even more disgusting.
People should realize that when they say this type of shit, they are also being a bully.
Also, there is the fact that because they are now an idol and on tv, they suddenly bring this up, why not bring it up way before they are on tv and an idol?

 

[kuro]

if she really is a bully, and meant her apology, shame on these knetz for dragging her even though she tried to make amends
shame on them anyways for saying that bully + lesbian is the worst combination

but if she isn't a bully and had to simply apologize for the public, then knetz and that accuser are disgusting

 

[Yoohyeon]

if she really is a bully, and meant her apology, shame on these knetz for dragging her even though she tried to make amends
shame on them anyways for saying that bully + lesbian is the worst combination

but if she isn't a bully and had to simply apologize for the public, then knetz and that accuser are disgusting

Even if she was a bully, what they are saying is actually bullying, so they are doing exactly what they are condemning her for.

 

[kuro]

Even if she was a bully, what they are saying is actually bullying, so they are doing exactly what they are condemning her for.

that's also true, but knetz are known to be hypocrites, so I'm not even gonna try and accuse them of that

 

[Yoohyeon]

that's also true, but knetz are known to be hypocrites, so I'm not even gonna try and accuse them of that

That is true.
I just hope she has realized her mistakes and made a heartfelt apology to the victim.
She's 21 now and if true, she did it when she was 14 or 15, so it was a while ago and she has probably learned a lot since then.
I just hate the fact that they are dragging her sexuality in with it when it's a completely separate thing.

 

[kuro]

That is true.
I just hope she has realized her mistakes and made a heartfelt apology to the victim.
She's 21 now and if true, she did it when she was 14 or 15, so it was a while ago and she has probably learned a lot since then.
I just hate the fact that they are dragging her sexuality in with it when it's completely separate.

yeah, that's so dumb they're claiming that because she's also bi, she's a horrible person. that isn't how it works

 

[Yoohyeon]

yeah, that's so dumb they're claiming that because she's also bi, she's a horrible person. that isn't how it works

This is also pretty sad for the lgbtq community as well, because although amazing that she has come out and has revealed her girlfriend, people are going to think that with every lgbtq person, comes a bully, so it will be much harder for people to come out, and if people don't want to come out, then society can't move forwards.
I just hope she can deal with all the backlash that will be coming her way, because not only does she have to deal with people mocking her sexuality, but they will also be attacking her bullying scandal.

 

[kuro]

This is also pretty sad for the lgbtq community as well, because although amazing that she has come out and has revealed her girlfriend, people are going to think that with every lgbtq person, comes a bully, so it will be much harder for people to come out, and if people don't want to come out, then society can't move forwards.
I just hope she can deal with all the backlash that will be coming her way, because not only does she have to deal with people mocking her sexuality, but they will also be attacking her bullying scandal.

she'll face it I hope. she must have expected the lgbtq backlash

 

[Evergreen]

The comments are disgusting. Stay strong Hyein.

 

[Yoohyeon]

she'll face it I hope. she must have expected the lgbtq backlash

Yes true. But she probably didn't expect that people would bring back her bullying accusations from 2017.

 

[kuro]

Yes true. But she probably didn't expect that people would bring back her bullying accusations from 2017.

I know. I just hope she's ok and has her girlfriend to support her

 

[Yoohyeon]

I know. I just hope she's ok and has her girlfriend to support her

Yes, I would think that she has both her girlfriend and all of the people who are there to support her!

 

[kuro]

Yes, I would think that she has both her girlfriend and all of the people who are there to support her!

that's good for her, she needs support at this time

 

[Abeamus]

This is also pretty sad for the lgbtq community as well, because although amazing that she has come out and has revealed her girlfriend, people are going to think that with every lgbtq person, comes a bully, so it will be much harder for people to come out, and if people don't want to come out, then society can't move forwards.
I just hope she can deal with all the backlash that will be coming her way, because not only does she have to deal with people mocking her sexuality, but they will also be attacking her bullying scandal.

I don't think someone like her really helps the LGBTQ community though even without the bullying scandal as nobody really knows her like even the Naver article only has 239 upvotes which is absolutely pitiful for Naver.

For someone to come out and actually have an impact on people it'd have to be someone who can get people to think "wait but they don't fit x stereotype" and be someone who people will still keep up with even though they aren't heterosexual.

 

[Yoohyeon]

that's good for her, she needs support at this time

Exactly! She's going to have a tough time until it dies down.
I hope she keeps strong! I have seen many kpop idols who have been bullied online because of certain things they've done and then they take their own life which is devastating.

 

[kuro]

Exactly! She's going to have a tough time until it dies down.
I hope she keeps strong! I have seen many kpop idols who have been bullied online because of certain things they've done and then they take their own life which is devastating.

I hope she doesn't go to that extreme :((

 

[Yoohyeon]

bring what up? the sexuality or the bullying? one would definetly keep them from becoming famous and the other...well it definetly wouldn't help.

I don't know, I have forgotten what or who I replied to.

 

[VillageIdiot]

Also, there is the fact that because they are now an idol and on tv, they suddenly bring this up, why not bring it up way before they are on tv and an idol?

The time when someone speaks up doesn't necessarily affect the validity of what they're saying
Some people aren't brave enough or don't wanna face it. Some people try to move on with their lives and forget about it. It's so common in society that nothing would have probably been done. It's similar to why some MeToo victims waited years to say anything. Right now in Korea, they're taking a stronger stance against bullying since it's a very real issue there. There's power in numbers.

If you see someone who tormented you become a public figure where character is key, wouldn't you call them out?