do you feel useless ? (1 Viewer)

[Willow]

I am always wondering if I am really a good person ... I have heard a lot negatives things about me and I started to think that they are mostly true ...
I have almost no real friends and every time I can make new friends, they leave me really fast. At first they think I am pretty nice but then they find me annoying ... It happened a lot of times ... even one of my childhood friends talks barely to me ...

 

[honeyfornomoney]

Yeah, back then it was the same for me, but somehow it changed? I don't even know how lol I hope things for you will be better soon ^^

 

[Willow]

Yeah, back then it was the same for me, but somehow it changed? I don't even know how lol I hope things for you will be better soon ^^

you're lucky that it changed

 

[Ringwanderung]

you might want to consider reasons why people might not like you if the situation is serious, although it’s a rather unpleasant matter to think about

one thing is you could actually ask some of the people why they left you, but that takes a lot of courage and you might get hurt in the process

it’s alright, we all have bad habits and traits, but they can be fixed you can talk to me about it sometime, darling

 

[yeji]

jesus seriously.... I literally keep telling you how wonderful and important you are to me

 

[blueberries]

Sometimes it can be just that you haven't found right people, not everyone matches with everyone. It can just take forever to find your matches..

 

[dark_tranquility]

I have the same problem making friends, because a lot of them who I met, were really judgmental and opinionated.
I think you are a nice person. It's most likely faults with other people, not your own. You realise soon enough.

I think keep trying and never stop being you. Listening to what others tell you, is not the way to go.
If they want to hurt you like that, then they aren't worth it in the long run.

My door is always open, if you want to talk or just chat or whatever. :)

 

[lostinwvnderland]

I use to feel that way when I was younger. I was super shy and would always hid behind my twin brother and wouldn't say hi to other children or adults because of how shy I was.

Sometime it just hard to click with other people for whatever reason, but eventually you will find someone that you have a connection with. Just keep trying and not be afraid of being you because you will find someone that will love you for you.

 

[Willow]

I use to feel that way when I was younger. I was super shy and would always hid behind my twin brother and wouldn't say hi to other children or adults because of how shy I was.

Sometime it just hard to click with other people for whatever reason, but eventually you will find someone that you have a connection with. Just keep trying and not be afraid of being you because you will find someone that will love you for you.

Can’t believe about that last sentence. Sorry :/

 

[YouNiceKeepGoin]

I think you are a sweet and kind person And if they don't see that then they have problems

 

[Willow]

I think you are a sweet and kind person And if they don't see that then they have problems

Well I am not that sweet ...

 

[MinSquishy]

I find myself to be pretty useless to those around me.

 

[Willow]

I find myself to be pretty useless to those around me.

Only me have a problem. You’re not useless

 

[YouNiceKeepGoin]

Well I am not that sweet ...

You shouldn't be so hard on your self! You are a great person! And I'm sure everyone would agree!

 

[MinSquishy]

Only me have a problem. You’re not useless

Not really. I don't do much. People could easily function without me.

 

[TaeKpop]

Yep like 24/7 like i am just that useless girl everyone act nice to
But you seem nice so "you nice keep going" *i'm corny as hell T-T*

 

[Willow]

Not really. I don't do much. People could easily function without me.

If it is true I think exactly the same about me

 

[MinSquishy]

If it is true I think exactly the same about me

Don't think that way. It's not true for you. You have a huge impact on everyone.

 

[Willow]

Don't think that way. It's not true for you. You have a huge impact on everyone.

Can’t think in an other way for now. I am really unhappy. I have a lot cried last days.

 

[MinSquishy]

Can’t think in an other way for now. I am really unhappy. I have a lot cried last days.

It's ok to be sad and have those moments, but don't let them control you. You are worth it. Believe me on that.