do you feel useless ? (1 Viewer)

[Willow]

It's ok to be sad and have those moments, but don't let them control you. You are worth it. Believe me on that.

I can’t control my emotions. I am extremely insensitive when I have any strong emotion

 

[MinSquishy]

I can’t control my emotions. I am extremely insensitive when I have any strong emotion

I understand that, but you don't have to let it control your actions. It'll get better.

 

[Willow]

I understand that, but you don't have to let it control your actions. It'll get better.

Nothing will get better. I have failed on everything

 

[MinSquishy]

Nothing will get better. I have failed on everything

No. You haven't. It WILL get better. I know it. You'll be ok.

 

[TaeKpop]

Not really. I don't do much. People could easily function without me.

Pls most of ya'll are my pro support system u to @YouNiceKeepGoin
(and other peeps)
cause ya'll i can relate to i mean like i never found people that i have a lot in common i mean my last real friend was an ocatku and did not like kpop.

 

[potato]

You're my real friend Sweety <3

You don't need to put yourself down like that. There are lots of people out there who care for you, me being one of them. Take a look at yourself and the friends that you've made. Sometimes, the problem can be within us but sometimes it can lie within others too.

You're not useless Sweety. That I can assure you. You make everyone around you smile. If anything is wrong, you can rant to me on discord again. You know I'll always listen <3

 

[Willow]

You're my real friend Sweety <3

You don't need to put yourself down like that. There are lots of people out there who care for you, me being one of them. Take a look at yourself and the friends that you've made. Sometimes, the problem can be within us but sometimes it can lie within others too.

You're not useless Sweety. That I can assure you. You make everyone around you smile. If anything is wrong, you can rant to me on discord again. You know I'll always listen <3

potato ... I feel slightly better now

 

[spicy_illusion]

You are not useless. Everyone has value and there are people who love you.
Not everyone is the right fit for each other but you should find your group of people who like you for who you are and can connect with you.
Everyone is different, so not everyone is compatible with each other.
But there are people on this forum who love you, so start there.

 

[DrowningFishy]

I am always wondering if I am really a good person ... I have heard a lot negatives things about me and I started to think that they are mostly true ...
I have almost no real friends and every time I can make new friends, they leave me really fast. At first they think I am pretty nice but then they find me annoying ... It happened a lot of times ... even one of my childhood friends talks barely to me ...

I'm in my late 30s and I can't help but to still feel that way. As superficial as online relation ships are totted to be I still like to think at least I'm not useless to everyone I chit chat to online. If I like you I like you, on line or not unless you change that. I've met some people I've talk to online, I've been both hurt greatly and very pleased to how it went. And you know, chances are the problems are not with you but the person you tried to make friends with. Then if you do make friends the next chapter in life begins-they get married. Hate to say it but a lot of people forget their single friends exist once they say I do. Haven't really talked to either of them in over a year since they said I do.

Having friends is complicated, some people just never figure it out. To be honest it doesn't make you useless at all. Surprisingly there is a lot of people who sit around seemingly friendless. Sadly the lonely ones never meet except online and usually in the wrong places to chill.

Chin up, you can make some RL friends. And when you do you'll be happy to waited all that time to find someone who likes you for you

 

[eclipsoul]

i think almost everyone felt like this at some point in their lives, so did i but it has become much better in my case after realising that life is way too short to worry about what others think. i don't have a huge group of friends either but that's fine by me as you're never going to be liked by everyone around you and that doesn't mean you're a bad person. i might not know you personally but based on what i've seen here, you seem really nice. everything else i can say is that i hope you feel better soon ❤

 

[kodoku]

Your worth doesn't decrease because someone else is unable to see it, cutie :) Don't worry too much, just work on yourself like we all should.... The right people will appear to you.... :)

As for me, I've felt this way... Like worthless trash as harsh as it sounds. But that feeling is only a sign to act and change things because something is not right.... It's okay right now, I try to help people when I can and I think that's something important

 

[wayvoutsold]

I do feel like that sometimes, but when I surround myself with people I love, I feel much better. We know you are not useless and we are here if you need any help.

 

[Michael]

You are one of my best friends around the forum, maybe my very best friend; so I don't believe you're useless. This sounds counter-intuitive; but whenever I feel bad about myself on anything; I just relax and accept it. I have learned that when I accept myself for who I really am; whatever is haunting me loses its power. That's how I'm dealing with my current situation actually. Otherwise, I might not be here at all.