Do they really say that to you? O.O
So are you bisexual?
Or do you not have a preference?
Yeah it's happened a couple of times granted I have kissed a lot more females than guys..college was just very experimental for other girls so I kinda had a field day with it because I be the one they were comfortable to do stuff with...but when I found a girl I clicked with the same would always happen and same shit would be said...so it would always just be friends with benefits if that.
with guys I didn't have that problem oddly less sexual hence I've dated more guys long term and mainly have guy friends due to my personality.
I don't have any preference to be honest it's more just personality based cause I'm not really attracted to physical appearance.
Growing up it fluttered around, cause one of my first real crushes was on girl I was close to at like 11 or 12 at the time so I thought I could be lesbian which would have been worse for me considering my family... so I after I lost my virginity to a guy I realised it wasnt based on gender just on personality and emotional closeness really I fit into demisexual more than anything I think.
I think going to an all girls school messed me up a bit though like I can't really develop female relationships (platonic or romantic) to a deep level, I only have 1 female friend and I love her so much she's stuck with me like 16 years with had kids at the same time and stuff, she says she in love with person I am which is nice.. but at the same time I do think feel more inclined to be with a female... Its odd and complicated really.