welcome to another episode of kodoku's deep thoughts (1 Viewer)

[kodoku]

it's a rainy and gloomy Monday morning, perfect chance!! and I slept very little last night which gave me a lot of time to think... so here I go again.........


da thoughts iz: if I know a person is toxic for me or an inconsiderate human being who brings me pain and I continue to get annoyed by it yet don't cut them off for whatever reasons I have... if I keep allowing them to harm me like this by not changing their ways, it's also me who refuses to change.....

Spoiler: probably boring but lemme get it out

The problem with me is not that I'm "too nice" as people like to tell me, it's that the way I treat people is a foolish type of kindness. It's good to be kind, but you must not be a fool because people can smell it and will abuse it. That being said, where to draw the line and how to be strong enough to do it.... I guess I give people the chance to harm me while hoping that they will choose not to... naive and foolish is what I am..

can you relate to this? is there something or someone causing you harm and it bothers you yet you haven't said goodbye to this thing/person ??

 

[dark_tranquility]

I said goodbye to all the people that needed to part from me.
It wasn't easy and it still hurts me even now.

I don't trust many people because of how others have used me in the past.
I feel like I tried my hardest to be their friend and they didn't give a rats ass.

friendships are fucked.

sometimes I don't tell them that I don't want to be their friend either, cause of drama.

 

[kodoku]

I said goodbye to all the people that needed to part from me.
It wasn't easy and it still hurts me even now.

I don't trust many people because of how others have used me in the past.
I feel like I tried my hardest to be their friend and they didn't give a rats ass.

friendships are fucked.

sometimes I don't tell them that I don't want to be their friend either, cause of drama.

sounds like you're a strong person then :) and yesss - the drama.... I have people I only kinda like and I can't trust them much.. but I work with them and if I told them I don't want to talk anymore, it would cause so much drama and tension every day ://

I agree but, the fact that people abuses from others kindness and naivety is bad

It's possible that for some person, the reason they cannot cut themselves off someone or something that is harming them is simply because of a said wheel of event. Like me, I never had many friends and thus, I easily get too attached to friends and even at the expense of getting hurt.

yes it is.... I always said why do I need to change, they are the ones who are wrong, but I guess you gotta adjust since you can't control others, only yourself........... And that makes sense, I am kinda similar as well...

 

[yeji]

I honestly feel the same as you. It‘s difficult and because I am a loyal person and just can’t let go of people I am attached to.