Has there ever been a moment in time when you've never felt self-loathing? (1 Viewer)

[potato]

Has there ever been a point in time where you have completely loved yourself with no self-hate attached? Why do you think you felt like that during that moment and if not, why do you feel the continuous hate towards yourself?

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I think self-hate follows us throughout all our lives, or maybe that's just me. But there have been moments where I wouldn't think about continuously depreciating myself because my mind would be focused on happier things. I feel like that is the closest I will get to not feeling any self-loathing for now. Those moments would be when I'm laughing with people I love or thinking about those memories of happiness. It's when my mind is too preoccupied with other thoughts that I don't think about how much I dislike myself as a person.

 

[kodoku]

I love it when you make these kind of threads :)

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and I love you and I'm sorry the world isn't letting you realize how wonderful you are, I pray you one day do and wish you many more moments of happiness..

as for me, can't say there was ever a time in my life when I've managed to reach self love or probably even acceptance, but there were some times when I didn't hate myself this much and things weren't this unbearable... there are many reasons and I think it's all very complex, but yeah, I'm the type of person who can't handle conflict and never wants to hurt anyone or cause any trouble, so I just let everything out on myself instead...

 

[potato]

I love it when you make these kind of threads :)

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and I love you and I'm sorry the world isn't letting you realize how wonderful you are, I pray you one day do and wish you many more moments of happiness..

as for me, can't say there was ever a time in my life when I've managed to reach self love or probably even acceptance, but there were some times when I didn't hate myself this much and things weren't this unbearable... there are many reasons and I think it's all very complex, but yeah, I'm the type of person who can't handle conflict and never wants to hurt anyone or cause any trouble, so I just let everything out on myself instead...

I get inspired by you <3

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Don't let it out on yourself too much koku :c And I think I'm the same way as you. I hate causing trouble and just keep it up all inside me...

 

[wayvoutsold]

Sometime in the past, yes. Before people started to beat me down and make me unsure of myself.

 

[kodoku]

I get inspired by you <3

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Don't let it out on yourself too much koku :c And I think I'm the same way as you. I hate causing trouble and just keep it up all inside me...

aw how sweet <3

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thanks hun and I understand... feel free to express yourself to me.. <3

 

[Tickita]

That moment in time is now.

 

[Mew]

Errr yeah when I was pregnant, although for half of that the self loathing came back because something happened and then the first year of my child's life I didn't which was nice.
But I'm that parent when anything happens to my kid I beat myself up for it.. Despite me being okay as a parent I will never think I'm good... But I will keep trying.

 

[Wingfrost]

Maybe when I was younger, I was really confident in myself when I was a kid and never questioned how I felt about myself.

 

[yeji]

I am honestly moving towards that