Sensitive I wish i was skinny (1 Viewer)

[Hajima]

ughhhhh i want to lose weight to be skinny and beautiful I am only eating 1 small meal a day now I hope to be able to go 2 days without eating nothing. I have made progress but not so much tbh i was a little over 70kg a month ago. i need to be 50 kg I am now 68kg 174cm/5'8

 

[VillageIdiot]

Isn't that fit for that height...

 

[Administrator2]

50kg on your height is EXTREMELY unhealthy. Please, do not do that.

 

[maruberry]

But... you seem to be really good weight for your height!
I'm 167 cm and 50kg is too light for me!

You are absolutely a very good weight already!
Not to mention 2 kg in a month is not bad progress at all if you DO want to still lose weight!

Loosing weight too fast is unhealthy, steady but consistent is a lot better long term!

But really do reconsider your 50kg goal!

 

[Hajima]

But... you seem to be really good weight for your height!
I'm 167 cm and 50kg is too light for me!

You are absolutely a very good weight already!

i mainly want to lose weight to burn baby fat on my face.

 

[maruberry]

i mainly want to lose weight to burn baby fat on my face.

In that case your goal should be to loose the baby fat, not 50kg!
Bcs there is a very good chance a good amount of it will be gone by the time you reach 58 or 60 kg!

 

[Hajima]

In that case your goal should be to loose the baby fat, not 50kg!
Bcs there is a very good chance a good amount of it will be gone by the time you reach 58 or 60 kg!

I feel like at the least I should be 58kg most models are at least 20kg less than their height.

 

[maruberry]

I feel like at the least I should be 58kg most models are at least 20kg less than their height.

58kg is a LOT better than 50kg. a LOT better.

 

[yeji]

ok I am now speaking from things I got to know on my personal fitness journey

please stop caring about scale, weight etc. what's important is you working out, having a good burn with that, eating the right foods and drinking a lot. To tone is the goal. Your goal shouldn't be a number.

 

[Mayday]

No you don't. You absolutely do NOT. let's not glorify anorexia.

 

[blueberries]

People have just skewed perception what is to be skinny.

I was underweight growing up, all the way from kid to adult. In middle school I weighted about 40 kg and were 160 cm. I got so much shit for it. Other teens, adults, health professionals. People loudly commenting what i eat or didnt in cafeteria, giving me advice without asking, commenting how my body is and how its wrong, asking me loudly in public places if I had anorexia. Shaming me. Giving me backhanded compliments: You are so skinny, i would never want to be that skinny. I even got denied health care cause doctor automatically thought i had anorexia and refused to help with my migraines.

Thats what its to be skinny. It doesnt help ur body image at all, doesnt make u feel pretty or appreciated. It sucks.

I'm now 55kg and 168 cm. Im finally at normal weight range and its such a relief. It came naturally to me as well, no diets or supplements plp tried to push me I would still want to do sth about my bony-ass arms though.

 

[Hajima]

People have just skewed perception what is to be skinny.

I was underweight growing up, all the way from kid to adult. In middle school I weighted about 40 kg and were 160 cm. I got so much shit for it. Other teens, adults, health professionals. People loudly commenting what i eat or didnt in cafeteria, giving me advice without asking, commenting how my body is and how its wrong, asking me loudly in public places if I had anorexia. Shaming me. Giving me backhanded compliments: You are so skinny, i would never want to be that skinny. I even got denied health care cause doctor automatically thought i had anorexia and refused to help with my migraines.

Thats what its to be skinny. It doesnt help ur body image at all, doesnt make u feel pretty or appreciated. It sucks.

I'm now 55kg and 168 cm. Im finally at normal weight range and its such a relief. It came naturally to me as well, no diets or supplements plp tried to push me I would still want to do sth about my bony-ass arms though.

that isn't even that bad most of models are that weight and they are considered beautiful.

 

[Hajima]

No you don't. You absolutely do NOT. let's not glorify anorexia.

it's just a joke I'm not serious

 

[bulletproof]

First of all, as the others said, 50kg is way too little for that height. Even if it is not 100% efficient, try to check your BMI. You can use a calculator like this BMI calculator | Check your BMI The BMI will tell you if the weight you want is healthy or not since the body needs a specific number of calories to survive, to use the basic functions

Second of all, don't starve yourself, please. Start with smaller goals, start with 5kg for example, not 20kg, this goal is very unrealistic. You will gain everything back when you start eating a bit more. You can try to reduce a little bit the number of calories and maybe include a little bit of sport. This is a healthy way of losing weight. If you starve yourself, your body is going in survival mode and stocks even more what you're eating, so it is really not healthy. Plus, the scale is not everything. I didn't lose any weight in years, but the shape of my body changed because of exercise and cleaner eating.

I'm sorry I wrote so much, but if you'd like even more details about these things, I can tell you more stuff. Just please don't starve yourself like this, it's not healthy, it's not pleasant and it will NOT provide the results you want.

 

[Mayday]

that isn't even that bad most of models are that weight and they are considered beautiful.

And those models grow up with severe health problems that can affect them for the rest of their life. 5 minutes of fame is nothing.

 

[Willow]

ok I am 161 cm and my weight is over 60kg I am the one who have to lose weight

 

[Hajima]

And those models grow up with severe health problems that can affect them for the rest of their life. 5 minutes of fame is nothing.

they make banks lol.

 

[Mayday]

they make banks lol.

"Banks" does not help with the crippling dietary issues they have as they grow older. What's the good of money if you hardly have any years to spend them, and you spend them in agony?

 

[blueberries]

that isn't even that bad most of models are that weight and they are considered beautiful.

Model industry is not real life though, most folks think models are skin and bones- and don't have curves ^^;. In real life you are going to get a shit if you are underweight=skinny, it's not really something people want. Like one person said to me, wow you are skinny- i wouldn't want that. What most people want, especially now, is toned and healthy body. Bikini fitness etc. is booming.

 

[Mayday]

Model industry is not real life though, most folks think models are skin and bones- and don't have curves ^^;. In real life you are going to get a shit if you are underweight=skinny, it's not really something people want. Like one person said to me, wow you are skinny- i wouldn't want that. What most people want, especially now, is toned and healthy body. Bikini fitness etc. is booming.

Yeah, I'm pretty skinny and I get a lot of comments about how I need to just "eat a burger". It's not pretty at all.