I would see myself ... (1 Viewer)

[Willow]

alone, I think I will never find anyone that will love me back. I am feeling like I am not cute enough and I don't have many things that people can appreciate in myself

And my personality isn't really compatible with a couple thing I guess.

would you date me? tell me your reasons if yes/no

 

[Abeamus]

You just need more confidence in yourself

 

[Willow]

You just need more confidence in yourself

not easy ...

 

[Taehyun]

i thought that about myself but now i have an amazing bf just put yourself out there!!

 

[Abeamus]

not easy ...

Not saying it is but it is something worth working towards

 

[Willow]

Not saying it is but it is something worth working towards

it is hard when you have nothing to appreciate about yourself

 

[Willow]

i thought that about myself but now i have an amazing bf just put yourself out there!!

I have tried to be in a relationship but both just failed

 

[Abeamus]

it is hard when you have nothing to appreciate about yourself

You won't find anything to appreciate while you aren't confident though, you just have to find another way to work on it

 

[Taehyun]

I have tried to be in a relationship but both just failed

evaluate what made it fail was it lack of communication, other problems? or were they just a douche and work on it so that your next relationship works out better (unless they were a douche then fuck them)

 

[Willow]

You won't find anything to appreciate while you aren't confident though, you just have to find another way to work on it

I am currently working on it, but the list of things I like about me is still blank.

 

[Willow]

evaluate what made it fail was it lack of communication, other problems? or were they just a douche and work on it so that your next relationship works out better (unless they were a douche then fuck them)

I was the main problem I think.

 

[Abeamus]

I am currently working on it, but the list of things I like about me is still blank.

Well it won't happen overnight that you'll just wake up one day and be confident, it'll take time learning to appreciate qualities about yourself that other people also see value in and working from there by time I am talking about potentially years

 

[Willow]

Well it won't happen overnight that you'll just wake up one day and be confident, it'll take time learning to appreciate qualities about yourself that other people also see value in and working from there by time I am talking about potentially years

I don't see anything good really

 

[Willow]

@Keihatsu may I ask your opinion?

 

[dark_tranquility]

I don't see myself compatible with anyone either.
Been single for so many years and live alone as well.

That and folks I do date always find something to hate about me : /
I just think something about me sets people off. x___x

 

[kodoku]

I relate tbh.... I've kinda stopped believing I'll ever have a marriage, kid, or even just a long lasting and proper relationship... It sounds stupid but I feel like I'm cursed or something since there's no real reason for things being the way they are for me.. I'm messed up and not anything special, but come on.. It's fine if I end up alone I guess, but I just wanted to have the experience and memories of love and happiness from my youth, just once... It is what it is. What we can do though is work on ourselves and our lives in order to improve and create equally important things for ourselves

 

[jasque]

I have tried to be in a relationship but both just failed

Most relationships fail, it doesn't say much about yourself.

I don't care a lot about relationships, the only reason I ever did was because other people said I should.
Then what's the point?

 

[Willow]

I relate tbh.... I've kinda stopped believing I'll ever have a marriage, kid, or even just a long lasting and proper relationship... It sounds stupid but I feel like I'm cursed or something since there's no real reason for things being the way they are for me.. I'm messed up and not anything special, but come on.. It's fine if I end up alone I guess, but I just wanted to have the experience and memories of love and happiness from my youth, just once... It is what it is. What we can do though is work on ourselves and our lives in order to improve and create equally important things for ourselves

... that's so meaningful I wish you'd find someone though, you are pretty

 

[Willow]

Most relationships fail, it doesn't say much about yourself.

I don't care a lot about relationships, the only reason I ever did was because other people said I should.
Then what's the point?

I want to be loved though, I am feeling like no one really loves me whatever I am doing ...

 

[Mew]

... Um.... I always wanted to end up alone though.
I always find this odd to say generally cause most people don't.
Its always been the plan for me ironically however ive been in a few long term relationships that were good and have a kid from one, but ultimately I always wanted to be alone. I never searched for a relationship or really wanted one but it happened, I managed to like a few people as people in their entirety and fall in love.
I just feel like even though I can be compatible to many people, they're not compatible to me... If that makes sense.

I've always been happier by myself. I just like the solitude and makes me calm and probably the closest thing I get to happy. Tbh.

And Would I date you...? No.. I don't know you well enough to even have attraction to you... And judging of the small % of your online persona.. Probably not.. I think I'd be too dark natured for you.Lol