Sensitive What can you do about looking "anorexic" ??? (1 Viewer)

[SnowWhite]

I'm tired of how I keep hearing this "you look anorexic/unhealthy" beside the "eat a sandwich" phrase.
This is how my body and specially legs look like (maybe even smaller tbh), but I swear I do not freaking skip meals and idk what to do anymore. It gets more annoying when people comment on it.

 

[kodoku]

People will never be satisfied and always talk crap because they're miserable with their own petty selves.. the best thing to do is to try your best to be healthy and just live for yourself imo

 

[daesuki]

It's pretty much impossible to stop people from judging. Just ignore them and go on your daily life. They're just jealous

 

[SnowWhite]

It's pretty much impossible to stop people from judging. Just ignore them and go on your daily life. They're just jealous

Honestly I wouldn't be jealous of someone as skinny. Doesn't look too cool indeed :(

 

[Wonpil]

They're just jealous. Don't listen to them

 

[daesuki]

Honestly I wouldn't be jealous of someone as skinny. Doesn't look too cool indeed :(

They think it's ideal (it's not) so they're jealous. It's not that fun to be overly skinny

 

[Mew]

There's nothing you can do, your body is the way it is, unless you want to go down the route of building muscle especially of your body doesn't hold on to fat well.
Much like my cousin, her body looked similar to that of a person who would actually be suffering from anorexia however its was a weird disease she had in which her body can not kept or hold on to fat, it was a relief when she found out because she ate more than I do so we knew there was something very wrong as she just kept losing weight. But after that she started building muscle although she's still quite thin, but there isn't much she can do about it apart from that.

As long as you eating correctly and are not actually suffering from anorexia, there isn't really much you can do about other peoples obviously unnecessary opinions.

 

[VillageIdiot]

Channel your inner Grande

 

[dark_tranquility]

I get the same treatment, so I feel you. My parents were super skinny and that reflected on me.
I hate the anorexic call out so much! Ugh!

I do struggle to eat a lot but I am working on it slowly.

 

[SnowWhite]

I get the same treatment, so I feel you. My parents were super skinny and that reflected on me.
I hate the anorexic call out so much! Ugh!

I do struggle to eat a lot but I am working on it slowly.

And did you gain any weight?

 

[dark_tranquility]

And did you gain any weight?

Not really. I keep losing weight or staying the same : /

 

[yeji]

just do you. as long as you don’t skip meals, eat healthy it’s all good.

 

[mysteric]

I have a friend like that, she just has crazy fast metabolism. Honestly, as long as you’re healthy, just do you

 

[Wingfrost]

I honestly wish I could give you something but I unfortunately don't know. Some people just feel like they can say things like that and think that it's right, I've had similar comments as well like "you're too skinny", "eat more", "skeleton" and it's really not fun. To have people thinking you don't eat or really just openly give their opinion about your own body is very frustrating. I'm really sorry that happens to you, but like a few others have said just continue doing you.

 

[Saladitas]

Okok so first, people are always going to make comments. That's sadly how people are. Ignore those people.

Second, if you genuinely want to change ur body and gain weight, I suggest searching up what a calorie surplus is (if u don't know anything about CICO). Consume more protein and start lifting weights so u can build some more muscles, gain weight, and looks lean. Tracking your calories is also extremely important.

I'm on the other end of the spectrum 😅 I'm not overly fat but I am a bit overweight so learning about CICO and how a calorie deficit (in my case) works helped me lose weight and doing the opposite will help u gain weight.

If ur happy with ur body (and as long as ur eating and ur healthy) then keep doing u! But if u do want to make even the slightest change then I hope this helps a little!