Am I valid? (1 Viewer)

[Wonpil]

So bacically I'm only attracted to girls sexually but everyone romantically, and i'm non-binary but i only get top dysphoria but not bottom dysphoria and i'm super femme and i wanna bind my chest but i don't think i'll ever want top surgery. Bacically i'm an invalid mess but I identify as a queer (panromantic lesbian) non-binary person. But like I don't feel valid at all :(

 

[Ahsoka]

My title is perfect for you

 

[Wonpil]

My title is perfect for you

Thank you 😭

it's just no one really accepts me 😔

 

[floorange]

So bacically I'm only attracted to girls sexually but everyone romantically, and i'm non-binary but i only get top dysphoria but not bottom dysphoria and i'm super femme and i wanna bind my chest but i don't think i'll ever want top surgery. Bacically i'm an invalid mess but I identify as a queer (panromantic lesbian) non-binary person. But like I don't feel valid at all :(

I know I'm not really one to say or an expert or you know a smart person in this. But you are valid. It's ok to feel this way. Maybe when your older you might look into top surgery more and want it maybe not. Time will tell I guess? And your still finding yourself. I'll try to find some articles and things that can help you. I hope this made since. But you ARE VALID.

 

[Ahsoka]

Thank you 😭

it's just no one really accepts me 😔

That's okay, they're the ones with flawed thinking not you. You know the kind of person you are better than they do, despite what they might think.

 

[Wonpil]

I know I'm not really one to say or an expert or you know a smart person in this. But you are valid. It's ok to feel this way. Maybe when your older you might look into top surgery more and want it maybe not. Time will tell I guess? And your still finding yourself. I'll try to find some articles and things that can help you. I hope this made since. But you ARE VALID.

Thanks 😭

 

[Wonpil]

That's okay, they're the ones with flawed thinking not you. You know the kind of person you are better than they do, despite what they might think.

That means so much, thanks 😭

 

[Ahsoka]

That means so much, thanks 😭

No problem, I've faces similar issues as a lesbian in a conservative family so I understand just a bit what it's like to not be accepted or thought of as valid. I still have family members that tell me that at 20 years old I'm too young to know who I really like and I think we both can agree that's ridiculous. They're not going to change because they're too stuck in their ways but it doesn't change the simple fact that it's who I am. Same with you. Hopefully as you get older people will start taking you more seriously about it. But even if they don't it doesn't change the fact that its their mistake not yours.

 

[Wonpil]

No problem, I've faces similar issues as a lesbian in a conservative family so I understand just a bit what it's like to not be accepted or thought of as valid. I still have family members that tell me that at 20 years old I'm too young to know who I really like and I think we both can agree that's ridiculous. They're not going to change because they're too stuck in their ways but it doesn't change the simple fact that it's who I am. Same with you. Hopefully as you get older people will start taking you more seriously about it. But even if they don't it doesn't change the fact that its their mistake not yours.

my parents are really homophobic and transphobic and just all the phobics and so I genuinely feel scared even walking near them. And like I can't present myself the way I want because I can't even come out to them. I remember I was outed and they bacically just said "no ❤" and pretend like i'm straight

 

[maruberry]

You'll figure it out eventually and even if you don't.... so what!
You are still you and it doesn't even matter if you are valid or not in others eyes.

And like..... I'm a cis bi girl and I sometimes think that it would be nice to have a dick so I could top some peeps. I still very much think I'm a girl and have no intentions to ever surgically get myself a dick.

Cis het men can dress up feminine and still be cis het men. You can be feminine and be whatever the fuck else you want to be.

You can both want to be femme and to not have boobs. Those 2 things are not mutually exclusive.

 

[Ahsoka]

my parents are really homophobic and transphobic and just all the phobics and so I genuinely feel scared even walking near them. And like I can't present myself the way I want because I can't even come out to them. I remember I was outed and they bacically just said "no ❤" and pretend like i'm straight

Aww I'm sorry to hear that. That's a terrible situation, make sure to stay safe. That's most important.

 

[Wonpil]

Aww I'm sorry to hear that. That's a terrible situation, make sure to stay safe. That's most important.

Thank you

 

[izcream]

you are valid and no one can tell you otherwise

 

[dark_tranquility]

You will always be valid. No matter if others think differently. Also loved <3

 

[kodoku]

 

[yeji]

stop this. everyone is valid. you are special and amazing the way you are. I know it's hard but relaizing your own worth is so important.

 

[Wonpil]

you are valid and no one can tell you otherwise

You will always be valid. No matter if others think differently. Also loved <3

stop this. everyone is valid. you are special and amazing the way you are. I know it's hard but relaizing your own worth is so important.

🥺😭👉👈this means so much hearing this. it's hard because i still just can't feel valid but i'm trying to like myself more

 

[yeji]

🥺😭👉👈this means so much hearing this. it's hard because i still just can't feel valid but i'm trying to like myself more

you better love yourself hun cause you ate amazing

 

[Wonpil]

you better love yourself hun cause you ate amazing

😭😭😭😭😭thank you i'm crying that means a lot i never hear stuff like that

 

[yeji]

😭😭😭😭😭thank you i'm crying that means a lot i never hear stuff like that

I really mean it sweetheart