I having boy preferences problem *anyone older or been in a relationship help meeee (1 Viewer)

[MinMint_Swagist]

i really don't know if it just me but i just realize I prefer Asian men not a certain type but just eastern Asian me. SO I WENT INTO A STORE TO DO work with my mom and bro a group of Asian men walks by at first I was like oh just a group of Asian men walking (cause I have an automatic thing where when someone walks by I notice there race and clothes). so I notice 2 of them were handsome out of the 3. Then I go to another store and I notice one of them by the window he was tall (YAYAAAAAA) handsome (@-@) looked good so I was all like

he was out side the store and could not see me (THX GODDDDDD) at that moment I have a thought I want to be with some one like that. then it pop in my head what some people think that kpop fan is only attracted to Asian people so I ran back to where my mom was. she went in the back so I decided to rake a quick run to see if I could get a good look at him again but he was gone
>T-T<. so the time skip I was reading manga and it was that I wish I had a boyfriend moment and I was like but what type and I tho about it and I notice how I only really been attracted to Asian boys. AM I RACIST OMG I HOPE NOT
DO I NEED TO KNOW IS IT RACIST TO MOSTLY BE ATTRACTED TO ASIAN BOYS.

 

[potato]

I don't have any relationship experience but I don't think it's bad to have a preference. Rather than finding Asian boys attractive because you listen to k-pop, you may have gotten into K-Pop because of your preference towards Asians. (music aside).

 

[Darkseid]

It's not racist to be attracted to people of a certain race, it's just preference.

Racism is when you say or do things that belittle other races or make people of other races feel uncomfortable/offended. Or if you believe some races are inferior to others. Clearly not the case here so you good don't worry lol

 

[Abeamus]

It's not racist to have a preference as long as it's just a preference since there's a fine line between having a preference for a race and having an obsession with one and not seeing someone for who they are because of it so just make sure you aren't crossing that line.

 

[MinMint_Swagist]

I don't have any relationship experience but I don't think it's bad to have a preference. Rather than finding Asian boys attractive because you listen to k-pop, you may have gotten into K-Pop because of your preference towards Asians. (music aside).

Yeah that what happen cause i saw cute boys (bts) my first time hearing kpop and it went from looks to music to both

 

[MinMint_Swagist]

It's not racist to have a preference as long as it's just a preference since there's a fine line between having a preference for a race and having an obsession with one and not seeing someone for who they are because of it so just make sure you aren't crossing that line.

Yeah i know that i just wanted to check myself u know what would be bad if i just dated an Asian guy who had a bad personality cause they are Asian NOW THAT BEYOND THE LINE

 

[dark_tranquility]

I am attracted to Asian and African Women.
I don't see it as racist. We all have our preferences.

I haven't dated anyone for years and I wasn't too good at it.
But I wish you the best of luck.

 

[MinMint_Swagist]

I am attracted to Asian and African Women.
I don't see it as racist. We all have our preferences.

I haven't dated anyone for years and I wasn't too good at it.
But I wish you the best of luck.

OH THX I'LL TRY my best anyway that funny I'm African American (and I'm so WAY OFF WHAT MY RACE STEREOTYPE IS XDDDD) and attracted to mostly Asian men

 

[yeji]

it's all ok hun