Do you think society is becoming more and more sensitive? (1 Viewer)

[kinnie]

Yes, people get butthurt over anything and everything. Like I'll see some random video clip on IG of someone rubbing their dog and someone below in the comments is all like, "That's abusive. You can obviously tell the dog doesn't like it." Like stfu. And there's not just only one comment saying something like that either. Society has become too soft and ignorant. It's scary to see how some people don't realize how good they have it. Why does everything need to be sugar-coated because people find it offensive? No one is forcing you to do anything, see anything or look at anything you don't want to look at. People got mad because Jennie wore a nurse outfit in a music video, but it's perfectly okay to watch porn. (I'm not hating on porn but I find it to be ironic.) People like to complain about what they are shown and what they hear. Not about the reality of the world and what the real truth is behind "everything that is good".

Sorry, went on a rant...
I just..had to let it out. lol​

 

[Jimimis]

Just look at that stupid sexual preference “controversy” that just happened lol. Joe Biden used it in May, RBG used it in 2017. And Merriam Webster CHANGED THE DICTIONARY to make it offensive.

 

[umpheri]

nowadays you have to be so careful about what you say online (or anywhere tbh)... its driven me to be scared of literally talking and having conversations with people cause I get scared that I'm gonna get canceled and pissed on forever after I've said something that someone finds a bit offensive

 

[Ahsoka]

Yes but on the other side some people use that excuse to justify racism and whatnot which is even worse imo

 

[Wicked]

Without a doubt...

It's good to fight against racism and other abhorrent things, but too many people jump the gun lately over the tiniest things. Or become offended over stuff extremely trivial.

 

[Drew_B]

It's so bad these days that when I go in public wearing a blue shirt I'm afraid I'll offend someone who's favorite color is red.

 

[hamz9_9]

i think openness of social media is to blame.....anyone with a bunch of followers can become a preacher....what do you think?

 

[jasque]

Yes

everyone is children these days

 

[cosmic_gayls]

yes

which is why i hate people

like you can wear a shirt that says "live love laugh" and people would be like "that's offensive cause my grandma just died"

 

[LoveYooShaSha]

Yes but lets go back to the days when my people were insulted n still insulted without representation. You cant hv progress if you dont want other ppl opinions to be heard.

 

[SHlNEE]

Yes, people get butthurt over anything and everything. Like I'll see some random video clip on IG of someone rubbing their dog and someone below in the comments is all like, "That's abusive. You can obviously tell the dog doesn't like it." Like stfu. And there's not just only one comment saying something like that either. Society has become too soft and ignorant. It's scary to see how some people don't realize how good they have it. Why does everything need to be sugar-coated because people find it offensive? No one is forcing you to do anything, see anything or look at anything you don't want to look at. People got mad because Jennie wore a nurse outfit in a music video, but it's perfectly okay to watch porn. (I'm not hating on porn but I find it to be ironic.) People like to complain about what they are shown and what they hear. Not about the reality of the world and what the real truth is behind "everything that is good".

Sorry, went on a rant...
I just..had to let it out. lol​

I FEEL YOU

listen to this, i got a good one for you
an ex friend of mine, one i holded very dearly and i cared for her A LOT, i thought she was precious, i adored her and i was always there for her.
without a doubt i was a decent human being to her and a good friend so god did i not expect her to ever become an ex friend of mine....

BUT one of the main reasons she is an ex friend is because YOU HAD TO SUGAR COAT SHIT ALL THE TIME WITH HER
she got offended so easily to a fkin point where it got so ridiculous, she got mad at me because i told her i thought a couch she was buying, a small but beautiful couch, i thought the price was rather expensive for what it was... i told her i thought it was very nice but expensive. just simple shit, no insulting her for being stupid with her money or something, no , i just said those simple things, just a freaking simple innocent opinion i shared
and she gotten mad over that and told me i was ruining her fun to purchase expensive things like that......

it became a whole thing after i defended myself by telling her , why am i not allowed to share such innocent simple opinion with you? why are you getting mad over nothing?
then it became a whole thing and she made something so tiny, so freaking big, i was astonished

but that is not all, this woman had the guts to shame me into a personality disorder after i gotten emotional a while back telling her i would find it very sad if she and i would no longer be friends because before i met her and others i was having a hard time by myself, having no friends at all
i came from a time i was very lonely.... thus i did not wanted to lose her just like that over stupid reasons.... THAT IS NOT CRAZY, that is fkin normal and human to not want to be alone and friendless again and besides, we really had a good time and had so many things in common, it is very rare to find people you have so much in common with.... i treasured that a lot so i got little emotional...
and you know what this bitch did? behind my back, to our other friends, speculating i have borderline and months later tried to manipulate everyone to try and push me out of our friend group because according to her I have borderline and I am a dangerous woman because of that.... She made up such hurtful lies and i I will never fully understand why.... I really thought we were genuinely good friends but apparently it was all fake.....

Later on, when I put all the things that happened and were said in private between her and me together, i figured out she did that simply because she is a jealous bitch who couldn't handle the fact i have social skills
she doesn't have, she more shy and i am more out going and cause of that i had good chemistry with them certain boys we were friends with.... she couldn't stand that, she really made that clear, to a point she gotten so jealous that her EX Boyfriend, ex boyfriend meaning he is allowed to do anything he wants because they were no longer together, a boy who used to be a friend of mine too, was not allowed to sleep over at my place for one fkin night
.... Everyone knew nothing was going on between him and me and it would of been an harmless friendly sleepover, everyone knew I did not find him attractive AT ALL.... 0% interest in the guy like she thought I might have.... But she didn't believe me.... Gotten jealous he wanted to sleep over at my place for fun cosy night of friends just hanging out.... She tried to tell him he had to wait 6 months to be able to do that or else he was disrespecting her...


Guess what, What does she do later on when gone on vacation? She hooks up with total strangers.... Being a total hypocrite....
Whilst telling her ex boyfriend he is not allowed to stay over at a female e friends place, she goes off at vacation hooking up with total strangers....

So in other words, she gotten angry at us for wanting to hang out as friends because she wanted to hook up first before he could of had a chance to move on... Even though he was not planning to do that at all with me, we were just friends....

Omg sorry for the long post.... Your post just triggered this to come back up in my mind and I had to vent a little because I might feel you could understand how ridiculous this woman was

For the record, It has been proven I have 0 personality disorders because at that time I was also seeing a psychologist and they did a test etc..... I hate her for everything that happened.... She played me for months, thinking we were best friends but behind my back she was shaming me and bad mouthing me to others with lies and manipulation.... Making me to have to sugar coat shit all the time because she so oversensitive like crazy and anything could upset her

How funny and ironic.... I was the one who she tried to put a crazy label on..... Yet she the one who lied and manipulated like crazy and gets upset over the simplest things .... At the end all of our friends dropped her finding out what she did and she also ran basically wanting to quit everything because she knew she was guilty.... there is more to the story I haven't even told you yet but I won't write it here as the post is long enough already.... Ugh

 

[jasque]

I FEEL YOU

listen to this, i got a good one for you
an ex friend of mine, one i holded very dearly and i cared for her A LOT, i thought she was precious, i adored her and i was always there for her.
without a doubt i was a decent human being to her and a good friend so god did i not expect her to ever become an ex friend of mine....

BUT one of the main reasons she is an ex friend is because YOU HAD TO SUGAR COAT SHIT ALL THE TIME WITH HER
she got offended so easily to a fkin point where it got so ridiculous, she got mad at me because i told her i thought a couch she was buying, a small but beautiful couch, i thought the price was rather expensive for what it was... i told her i thought it was very nice but expensive. just simple shit, no insulting her for being stupid with her money or something, no , i just said those simple things, just a freaking simple innocent opinion i shared
and she gotten mad over that and told me i was ruining her fun to purchase expensive things like that......

it became a whole thing after i defended myself by telling her , why am i not allowed to share such innocent simple opinion with you? why are you getting mad over nothing?
then it became a whole thing and she made something so tiny, so freaking big, i was astonished

but that is not all, this woman had the guts to shame me into a personality disorder after i gotten emotional a while back telling her i would find it very sad if she and i would no longer be friends because before i met her and others i was having a hard time by myself, having no friends at all
i came from a time i was very lonely.... thus i did not wanted to lose her just like that over stupid reasons.... THAT IS NOT CRAZY, that is fkin normal and human to not want to be alone and friendless again and besides, we really had a good time and had so many things in common, it is very rare to find people you have so much in common with.... i treasured that a lot so i got little emotional...
and you know what this bitch did? behind my back, to our other friends, speculating i have borderline and months later tried to manipulate everyone to try and push me out of our friend group because according to her I have borderline and I am a dangerous woman because of that.... She made up such hurtful lies and i I will never fully understand why.... I really thought we were genuinely good friends but apparently it was all fake.....

Later on, when I put all the things that happened and were said in private between her and me together, i figured out she did that simply because she is a jealous bitch who couldn't handle the fact i have social skills
she doesn't have, she more shy and i am more out going and cause of that i had good chemistry with them certain boys we were friends with.... she couldn't stand that, she really made that clear, to a point she gotten so jealous that her EX Boyfriend, ex boyfriend meaning he is allowed to do anything he wants because they were no longer together, a boy who used to be a friend of mine too, was not allowed to sleep over at my place for one fkin night
.... Everyone knew nothing was going on between him and me and it would of been an harmless friendly sleepover, everyone knew I did not find him attractive AT ALL.... 0% interest in the guy like she thought I might have.... But she didn't believe me.... Gotten jealous he wanted to sleep over at my place for fun cosy night of friends just hanging out.... She tried to tell him he had to wait 6 months to be able to do that or else he was disrespecting her...


Guess what, What does she do later on when gone on vacation? She hooks up with total strangers.... Being a total hypocrite....
Whilst telling her ex boyfriend he is not allowed to stay over at a female e friends place, she goes off at vacation hooking up with total strangers....

So in other words, she gotten angry at us for wanting to hang out as friends because she wanted to hook up first before he could of had a chance to move on... Even though he was not planning to do that at all with me, we were just friends....

Omg sorry for the long post.... Your post just triggered this to come back up in my mind and I had to vent a little because I might feel you could understand how ridiculous this woman was

For the record, It has been proven I have 0 personality disorders because at that time I was also seeing a psychologist and they did a test etc..... I hate her for everything that happened.... She played me for months, thinking we were best friends but behind my back she was shaming me and bad mouthing me to others with lies and manipulation.... Making me to have to sugar coat shit all the time because she so oversensitive like crazy and anything could upset her

How funny and ironic.... I was the one who she tried to put a crazy label on..... Yet she the one who lied and manipulated like crazy and gets upset over the simplest things .... At the end all of our friends dropped her finding out what she did and she also ran basically wanting to quit everything because she knew she was guilty.... there is more to the story I haven't even told you yet but I won't write it here as the post is long enough already.... Ugh

had a friend with difficult personality too

Now i only hang out with people that can at least try to see my points lol

 

[SHlNEE]

had a friend with difficult personality too

Now i only hang out with people that can at least try to see my points lol

good for you
don't be friends with people who are extremely difficult to interact with, they are not worth your time
instead of faking a friendship with you they should be spending that time seeing doctors, seek help , instead of making others miserable too

like that bitch i mentioned above, once i found out how she betrayed me as a friend, tried to stab me in the back with her fake act and filthy lies....
instantly cut her off and told her in her face i no longer wanted to have anything to do with her
it really hurt though, i cried for real, i saw her as my best friend basically, so yeah....

 

[Administrator2]

I don't think so. I just think it's trendy to be offended.