What Preference Do You Have That Could Be Considered Offensive? (1 Viewer)

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I don't know if I should label this sensitive or not.
But I'm curious-I know there is a lot of drama over preferences in general.
At least in America. So I was curious what preference you have that might be taken
the wrong way or upset someone.

It can be with dating, friends, or food-just anything.
A preference that might offend someone.
You can be silly about this or serious.

But if you are going to be serious please explain more
because I don't want people being rude in here and I feel like
an explanation usually helps people see your side.
And not take offense.

If you don't want to be serious for fear of starting something that's ok too.

Spoiler: !I'm Blunt So Trigger Warning!

So for me, I have a preference for weight. I don't discriminate nor hate those who are bigger.
I was borderline obese at one point but lost the weight and am down to a healthy range. I'm still working on my body every day.
But I don't think I could date a big guy or gal-not because of visuals but because I realized I like an active lifestyle.
I like to go on long-ass hikes that take you up into some pretty high and narrow places.
I can't really eat a lot of fast food or if I do it's dangerous for me.
I also think what my partner does to their body influences what I do to my body.
I think in order for me to be in a relationship with someone we both need to have the same goals
or ideals for ourselves and what we want out of life. I also have a family history of diabetes right now.
I need to watch what I eat, how much I eat, and more. It's something I take seriously and get upset with myself if I slip up.
I want a partner who holds me accountable and pushes me to do better and I'd hope they would want the same from me.

I'm not saying these qualities can't be in someone who is heftier. I know there are people out there who are big and still are active and watch what they eat.
I think I'd be willing to be with someone like that if I knew they were doing what is good for their body and health.
It could be inspirational for me as well.

I hope I explained myself well?

PLEASE BE CIVIL WITH EACH OTHER IN THE COMMENTS IF SOMEONE ANSWERS SERIOUSLY!!!
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[mysteric]

I love strawberry-flavoured food but hate strawberries themselves
I can't stand Cheetos
Mint ice cream is good, you guys are just mean
Light mode is superior on all sites sans Discord

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I love strawberry-flavoured food but hate strawberries themselves
I can't stand Cheetos
Mint ice cream is good, you guys are just mean
Light mode is superior on all sites sans Discord

Just plain mint ice cream? No chocolate chips?

 

[Willow]

I like fresh strawberries but not strawberries flavoured food

 

[mysteric]

Just plain mint ice cream? No chocolate chips?

yes, just plain mint ice cream

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

I love strawberry-flavoured food but hate strawberries themselves

I like fresh strawberries but not strawberries flavoured food

There are two schools of thought

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

yes, just plain mint ice cream

huh...never had it.

 

[Willow]

There are two schools of thought

that's the reason why I wrote that xD

 

[Jimimis]

Light mode is superior on all sites sans Discord

go bolder

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

go bolder

I agree with this one tbh I only have reddit and discord on dark mode.

 

[Jimimis]

idk yeah weight ig. or as @maruberry put it "starved anime teen"

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

idk yeah weight ig. or as @maruberry put it "starved anime teen"

I don't understand the quote but ok

 

[Jimimis]

I don't understand the quote but ok

i like my boys exceedingly skinny

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

i like my boys exceedingly skinny

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[SHlNEE]

I only stan real legends and kings like shinee and vixx
BTS and exo fans may find that offensive

 

[Tickita]

Not gonna date a guy I'm not attracted to just because he's nice.

 

[SHlNEE]

Not gonna date an ugly guy just because he's nice.

No one is ugly
Everyone can be beautiful in their own way

Or : something that is off for you can be beautiful in someone else's eyes

 

[honeyfornomoney]

I don't think I would date a black person. Not that I'm racist or don't find them beautiful, it's just that I prefer whites. Wouldn't date Russian girls tho, they would be too much for me XD

 

[Tickita]

No one is ugly
Everyone can be beautiful in their own way

Or : something that is off for you can be beautiful in someone else's eyes

You know what -- I edited it. I just reread it, and jeez.

Sorry about that.

 

[Lovely_Cornchips]

You know what -- I edited it. I just reread it, and jeez.

Sorry about that.

Oh my goodness I thought you meant legit ugly and I was shocked by your bluntness.