Is it hard for you to tell someone NO? (1 Viewer)

[kinnie]

Yes. Especially if they are super nice and I like them even though what they ask of me, I low-key don’t want to get involved in. I don’t like hurting anyones feelings or disappointing anyone either. I don’t consider myself to be a pushover more so than a people pleaser tbh. Like in my mind I know I don’t have to, but I guess I should do it out of being nice rather than obligation? Idk. I‘m definitely not an ass-kisser either. I suck at trying to hide my outward emotions because I don’t try to. Lol Now if someone tells me no...


jk. That’s just an example of being too nice.
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[Yili]

Yeah I got a problem with it but I have more self control now because I try to think more about the situation before committing to anything that I really wouldn't want to do for example
I used to just say no so people wouldn't be mad at me or be disappointed

 

[kinnie]

Yeah I got a problem with it but I have more self control now because I try to think more about the situation before committing to anything that I really wouldn't want to do for example
I used to just say no so people wouldn't be mad at me or be disappointed

Good for you, luv.

 

[Areum]

Nope. I mean if I don't like you, then it's an automatic no for me. But if I like you (like you're my friend or something) it's still a no :wonugl:

 

[Yili]

Good for you, luv.

i fecked it up, i meant to say i used to say yes LMAO

 

[Tickita]

No

 

[kinnie]

i fecked it up, i meant to say i used to say yes LMAO

I was honestly confused about that part but it’s cool.

 

[kinnie]

Nope. I mean if I don't like you, then it's an automatic no for me. But if I like you (like you're my friend or something) it's still a no :wonugl:

We stan a savage queen.

 

[kinnie]

No

Why am I not surprised?

 

[Mew]

Nope.

 

[SHlNEE]

No

 

[Michael]

Usually yes. I still need to learn how to teach people that no, really means no.

 

[Soogi]

i used to be a real pushover but i think ive learned to stand my ground when its truly important

 

[kinnie]

Usually yes. I still need to learn how to teach people that no, really means no.

Just give them a slap or two next time.

 

[kinnie]

i used to be a real pushover but i think ive learned to stand my ground when its truly important

Kudos to you my friend. :3

 

[Wingfrost]

Yes

 

[kinnie]

Yes

Don’t let them take advantage of you. You’re better than that.

 

[Wingfrost]

Don’t let them take advantage of you. You’re better than that.

I’m trying to get better at it, but I always feel guilty if I say no.

 

[kinnie]

I’m trying to get better at it, but I always feel guilty if I say no.

Hmm.. you could try saying no real loud and run away.

 

[Wingfrost]

Hmm.. you could try saying no real loud and run away.

Worth a shot I suppose